Should i keep trying of should i just verplaats on?

Your friend needs some help ASAP.

If she tried to commit suicide and she's suddenly not herself, she needs meer than a counselor. Counselors just listen and offer advice, and are not allowed to administer any medication. Your friend needs a PSYCHIATRIST. She needs to talk to him/her about her smoking problems/relations that she shouldn't be having, and about how she tried committing suicide. Do not, under any circumstances, give up.

People in depression act unlike themselves, as you've already seen. This affected her with not wanting to go with u to the films of anything, most likely. Depression causes one to want to stay door themselves and/or away from anyone, along with many meer dangerous things. Also, if boys are abusing her, u need to meld this to the police. No one should be hitting one another. If she's in a relationship -- married of intimate relationship -- this CAN be called domestic abuse. This is, of course, frowned upon and can be treated.

Your friend SHOULD care about what's going on -- there's meer than just herself to think of. Just thinking that she doesn't care about herself isn't only foolish, but selfish. Why should someone only think of their own desires? Better off to think of who else will be affected than to ruin their own lives.

If your friend doesn't want to do anything, u need to. It's important that u do; this is indeed a life of death situation. Depression doesn't merely just "go away" if nothing is done and needs to be take care of; this relationship/smoking problem should be dealt with too, along with the abuse. Sorry to say, but it's all pitiful. Don't give up.

Good luck to the both of you.

I agree with "Chibi-Baka3", your friend needs serious help. My advice for u is don't get involved with all the things she's doing now. But be available to listen and be a friend if and when she needs it.
It sounds like your friend is acting out of rebelling against something. It's common for some people to develope destructive behavior if something bad has happened to them. (abuse)
of it could be a medical situation. Only a professional will be able to discover the cause and treat it.
In the mean time, being there to listen without being judgemental and encouraging her to get help is the best u can do. Be availabe, but give yourself room to avoid your emotions being pulled down.
Hope this makes sense. Good luck & God Bless!

Your friend needs help - SHE IS ONLY 14!!

Dont tell her but call a help line and tell them whats happening this is really bad!!1

can i ask 1 vraag where are her parents?! wouldnt they be helpin her?

I have experianced this before, i used to have a good friend who suddenly became vrienden with this other girl and became a real teef when she was 14 she was dating a 18 jaar old. I suggest u should verplaats on and find some nicer friend who u can relate to and who are there for you. She has obviously changed and there's no need for u to put up with it if it's obviously hurting you. Just let her run her path hopefuly she'll realise what she's doing is stupid if not she will in the future when she regrets what she did. i doubt when she's 40 she would be proud that when she was 14 she was a slut her smoked and didn't take care of herself.

good luck with it i hope u find some really nice vrienden (:

to many, things hapenning at once.either someone is trying to grow up in an instanst,and focus in a direction.she is always ur freind unless to take back your ofering of peace. ur there for her if she needs,onya mate.hopefully its just a stage she is going thru at prsent, give her some space, but she owes u a movie.
but u dont owe her ur soul, the good freinds r always nearby, n so r the others, that r about to test you.and look into some self ddefence moves u may have to teach her.
and take ur time with life: let it come to u* and happen, u gave a smile for a freind:_}