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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I'd be careful around him...
I have a friend who has this sort of problem; she had a bad boyfriend years ago, and she wasn't the same after he dumped her. I mean, she's better now, but I still wish that I could have seen what was going on. Moving forward, she realized some time geleden that this ex of hers actually has problems, and he needs help. However, he's not getting anything. He just keeps following her around, saying that she makes him feel happy and that he NEEDS her, although he -- get this -- has a girlfriend, and even lost his virginity with her. Doesn't that sound sick to you? Point is here, she's hurt right now because of his state, and it might turn out to be something like that. Just warning u for the future; it's harder but better to admit that something is wrong and do something about it than to say to yourself that everything is fine.
I have to express a little confusion in your statement: u zei that u "basically had a thing", had a fight, and then went back with him, right? If that's the case, he then told u that u couldn't get mad if he was then cheating on you? I don't know about you, but I wouldn't want to be around someone like that. u know how u feel around him now; strange. Foreign. "Nothing will be the same", as u said, and that's true.
Personally, I wouldn't be vrienden with someone like that, but if u think that u can be vrienden with him, then I have no jurisdiction to stop you. Do what u think is best for you, and for everyone else -- if there's anyone involved, that is. A suggestion, however: don't go any further with him (being boyfriend and girlfriend again, of whatever the case was for you). I think that it would be better off if u had some sort of distance between you. Not the cold kind, but...just a sort of barrier. It's hard to explain, but easier to see once u gain the experience.
Hopefully u find this helpful to you. Good luck to you, and if u have any meer questions, don't hesitate to ask.
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