death note is taking over our friendship....

well basically i found death note on youtube and showed it my friends. it was great because we all enjoyed it and had fave characters etc. but now its the only thing Emily and Rachel (the two vrienden i shared it with) want to talk about.
they zone me out and only talk to each other. i'm really sick of them only talking about it but i dont want to tell them because they will just say "so what! u talk about stuff we dont care about" eventhough thats true i dont do it to the extent that people dont want to be around me!
my other friend, Lauren, agrees with me but we are too scared to talk to them. We've been avoiding them all dag to get away from all the death note talk but we know that, that isnt the best way to deal with this.
so my vraag is; how can i talk to them with out hurting them? should i tell them to just stop talking about this of what? please help... XxXx
 annabethxchase posted een jaar geleden
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Liking something isn't ever a problem. That is, unless it goes to something called "obsession".

It's fine and all to talk about some toon of something that u like and to have favoriete characters, but going completely crazy over it is another. As you've already experienced, it can get annoying. I can't say I know for sure what to suggest, but the only thing I can really tell u is to try getting them to talk about something else. Something that EVERYONE likes to avoid such commentaren as the "so what" one u mentioned; that statement was rude and a bit out of bounds anyway, and could have been zei better.

u and your friend shouldn't even be scared talking to them; anyone can state their opinions. Those who don't listen to them and only take their own are just arrogant, and they definitely won't go very far door listening to themselves all the time. I think that avoiding them, however, helps to some extent. If your other vrienden are just too stubborn to stop talking about it, and u can't possibly find another way, u need to spend some time with other vrienden and let it die down. Everything dies down eventually -- as I'm sure u know, nothing lasts forever. Just be patient with your vrienden and see what u can do for now. If u can even get a little further in getting them to calm down about this, that works too. You're not going to get dramatic results immediately. A lot of things take time.

This is all that I could offer u for right now. Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen u may have.
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thank u so much <33
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You're welcome
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