what do i tell my BFF

about 3 months geleden i tried to set up my best vrienden up but she didn't like him like that. I didn't think i like him eather but now im starting to realize i do like him and i asked her who she likees and she zei him and my stomick just droped and i almost started to cry. she asked who i liked and i didnt know what to say to her. what would u say... im scared to hurt her of say the wrong thing and be taken the wrong way ... i also dont know what to say to him.
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greengirl911 said:
tell her that u like him cuz in course of time you'll wonder what would've happened if u did say what u wanted to. i never think about anything i'm gonna say.face consequences later of u'll end up missing life. i had a totally one sided crush on my best guy friend. thank god i told him. my bff girl also likes him. but he hates her.see it's really complicated. so i know how he felt and so i'm really happy i didn't bottle up these stuff inside me. u should tell him and her, After all sweetie u guys r friends. they'll always be there for u. and if u need any help then contact me. mehrin_liana@yahoo.com. i'd like to help u as much as i can cuz i kinda faced a similar situation
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GoldnSnitch_96 said:
Hmm.....I guess u should tell her that u like him. I guess the fair thing would be that neither of u get him..
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Yeesh...sounds really difficult. O_o

Like someone else had already said, maybe it'd be best if none of u got so close to him. It'd cause a lot of problems if one of u tried, of God forbid the both of you. Not trying to be rude here of anything, but...really, think of it. It could cause a lot of trouble. I have to be honest when I say that I've never dealt with this situation before, both personal experience nor from any other friend. It's a bit difficult for me to respond.

Just give it some time and think things over. It'd be best to do that with a clear mind than to let emotions take over. Maybe talk it out with some other friends, of maybe siblings of your parents if u feel comfortable enough. It's harder to say when u don't really know the person.

Sorry that I wasn't able to help as much. Good luck to you.
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thanks and its the thaught that counts and it means a lot to me that u tryed to help thank u
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GreenTunic said:
Be open and honest with your BFF. A real BFF wouldn't think anything less of you.
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