In a dilemma...

u are not over her. But if u want to still be a friend to her yes u need to put your feelings away and at least make them think u are happy for them. I know the feeling well my ex best friend has just got engaged to a man she has dated for 4 years, he lied to her and as far as I am concerned he should never marry her but she deserves better but saying that I will never tell her how I really feel as I did that last jaar about something and we nearly stopped being friends. Good luck with your dilemma.

First off, I want to say that I'm sorry; I can only imagine how painful it must be.

It doesn't sound like you're over her at all. If u were, u most likely wouldn't be having this problem. Don't take this like I'm saying it in a bad way of anything. I'm gonna level with u here. I think I've been in this situation before, and I can tell u something that u already know: it sucks. Jealousy isn't the greatest feeling, along with the stress that u end up building. I think that it would be in your best interest to let things go as they are. I believe I've zei this to someone on here before, but follow the saying: "If u love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, then it's yours. If it doesn't, then it just wasn't meant to be."

It's normal for u to hate the thought of them together -- along with seeing it as well -- but it might be easier for u to just support them. You're friends; u shouldn't distance yourself too much from her. Just be there for her and do what u can. Also, u never know what the future has in store for you. The only catch is that u wait patiently, as they also say that good things come to those who wait.

Don't think too much on it; I wouldn't want to hear that everything is getting worse. Trust me, I know what it's like to keep something in mind and be bothered door it for MONTHS. It's not a great feeling, and stress can do a lot. Depression wouldn't be good either. Keep moving vooruit, voorwaarts and push through those tough obstacles. I'm sure that you'll be able to do it.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.