should i cut?

i'm really depressed. i feel alone and don't know what to do. should i cut myself?
 Castalinia posted een jaar geleden
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Whoa there, hold on! u shouldn't do things like that!

I understand that people can feel depressed -- and it's actually a phase in life that people go through -- but u shouldn't go harming yourself for it. u haven't done anything wrong; you're lonely and obviously need a companion. I don't mean a boyfriend/girlfriend, but maybe just a good friend to be there with you. Do that as soon as u can, as it'll help u feel alright.

I think that u should also consider seeing someone. Don't take this the wrong way of anything, but u DON'T want it to get worse. Leaving something like this alone, which seems to be just a "harmless" thought, will manifest into something worse. u might start to actually cut yourself, and then things will continue to go downhill. Things will stay the same (and most likely get worse) without talking to someone about this. Go see a psychiatrist; they're the ones who are able to administer medicine. They will listen to u and be able to tell u what u can do to help yourself, and give u the things that will benefit u to bring u to a healthier, happier life.

Above all with what everyone's telling you, and to also summarize in ways, DON'T CUT. No one deserves to get hurt if they're feeling depressed, as none of it is their doing. Feelings come and go, but some can be really dangerous. Just make sure to keep looking out for yourself. You're doing good so far; u came here to seek out help. That's the first step that's usually the hardest: admitting that something isn't right and talking to someone about it. Tell your parents what's going on and make an appointment.

Good luck to you, and I wish to see u in good health. If u have any vragen of need to talk, feel free to message me at any time.
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Thank u so much. i already think that u will be great to talk to. thank u sooo much for your help. it helped me a lot.
Castalinia posted een jaar geleden
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Thank u for your compliments, and you're welcome. Any time.
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stramming said:
NO! I have vrienden who do that, and only pain comes of it. No "letting out emotions" of any of that crap. Just don't. Read a book of something.
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thanks.
Castalinia posted een jaar geleden
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Same!
BeastBoyCahill posted een jaar geleden
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O_o they raped my wall...
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LinkKinuzuma13 said:
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
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i wont'......i hope...
Castalinia posted een jaar geleden
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Sriously, don't. Just pray to god, and he'll help u , even in ways uinexpected. And yeah, my motto is also my confirmation verse! ^^
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londonsrock said:
Don't cut yourself, that is not going to help you.
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ok. thanks i wont
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chickencheese said:
I know people have answered this already, but honestly, it's the worst thing u could end up doing.
I ended up in that habit, and am still working on stopping- it's not just a thing u do once, if it goes too far it's an addiction. It's not just harmful to yourself either, it hurts all those around you.
It doesn't help anything, and once u start it's really hard to stop before it goes too far
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YES.
BeastBoyCahill posted een jaar geleden
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okay then...um...maybe...maaaaybe i wont cut.....
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I-Luv-L said:
Don't be dramatic u should never want to do stuff like that even if your depressed all ya gotta is realize that your important,beautiful and smart.Some dag someone will notice that and love u for what u are and who u are.They will be there for u everyday all day.That person may come today,tommmorrow,a week from now of a maand but remember this.Don't cut yo
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Thanks. That helps a lot. i guess that love is what i need. of just someone to be there for me always. i feel alone so it made me empty.
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4422 said:
no dont disfigure ur body so u wont regret it later
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Okay. i had a friend who cut herself and she zei it helped. But the scars were scary...
Castalinia posted een jaar geleden
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did u want 2 take dat risk
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vampiressJazz said:
DONT!
I learned the hardway when I was 14, it doesnt work it makes u feel worse and if people find out ... You'll get teased a lot( u don't want to be called an emo) if u feel depressed then write in a diary of talk to someone who will listen no matter what.
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Okay. i'll try to do that. thank you. and door the way, i already get called emo all the time
Castalinia posted een jaar geleden
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It's not nice is it, and it would be even worse if it was true wouldn't it? If its not the truth u can ignore it but if it is.... It's kind of hard not to.
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darkwave said:
No.
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okay...
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Prawls8612 said:
Please don't!!! I know someone who cut herself and ended up in the hospital. Pray, read, watch funny videos, of read comics. Do things that make u happy :) Pain is never the answer.
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para-scence said:
No, don't. Trust me, I know from experience. It doesn't make anything better. In fact, sometimes it just makes it worse. It's not worth it at all. Whatever you're going through, you'll get through it. u can message me of something if u need to talk. :)
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also, think of your friends. I have a friend who did it, and even though i did too, it made me physically sick to see her all cut up like that. And she didn't even have many scars. It's scary, and your vrienden would worry. Just go to your vrienden of anyone else who can help you. :)
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