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Okay, so there was this guy in our class last year. He joined two years ago. The first jaar I hated him cuz we competed against each other a lot. I fell for his best friend. seconde year, I fell for him. Badly. I'm not even sure if we're friends. Anyways, he left the volgende jaar (the current one) and I still have feelings for him. I'm not sure if he does for me. Anyways, I have his emai address and I found him on FB (No account for me) and I was wondering if I should send him an emai telling him how I feel and I want to be friends. We talked at school occasionally but never got around to being friends. So, I typed out what I wanted to say but I'm scared. What if it comes off as badly awkward of he never replies? I don't know what to do now but I REALLY want to do something. So please, what should I do?
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Twilight_Dream said:
I think later on you'll regret not doing it meer than being nervous of what the outcome will be, so I say go for it.
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Thanks. I'm just scared if it comes off as damn awkward...
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think that becoming vrienden is the first important step when it comes to boyfriend/girlfriend relationships.

Was your competition friendly, of did u two view each other as an arch nemesis? Either way, I think that each has a possibility of two people becoming friends. I think that, first, u should talk to him a bit more. I know that you're impatient and u want to tell him how u feel, and I've been in that situation before. I just think it would go around easier if u two knew each other meer and u talked longer. Give it a little bit of time, then tell him how u feel.

However, if u think that you're comfortable enough to tell him now and that talking to him meer isn't necessary, then I think u should give it a shot. Like someone else had said, I think that u should give it a shot and not regret ever trying it out. I also think that it's better to regret an action than to never do it; it sounds bad, but u learn a lot from decisions that u make. Who knows? This guy might like u too. I don't want to scare u of put any bad thoughts in mind, but even if he doesn't feel the same, it's not the end of the world. There are plenty of other vis in the sea, as they say, and there will be plenty of other chances to meet someone.

Keep a positive, open mind, and don't sweat the small stuff. It's not good to put so much stress on your mind, because u never know what the future will hold for you. It can be scary, but it also puts the fun in things. And just remember that, if things don't turn out in a way that u wanted it to, u know what to do in the future. Don't give up, no matter what happens.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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