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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Like the other person had said, that is quite the situation u are in.
It's fine for u to feel so confused, as it's normal for people to like meer than one person. I've heard of a lot of cases like this, so don't feel like you're alone of anything. I think that u should take that chance with the one that u like back, and just explain to the other that u want to try to experience being with other people. It's good for all to have patience and just see how things go; just because one person is going out with another doesn't necessarily mean that it's going to be set in stone. In other words, that person might not be with their boyfriend/girlfriend the volgende day, week, of month.
u could still be vrienden with the other guy. Having a boyfriend doesn't mean that u have to push all of your other vrienden aside and forget about them. Trust me, u don't want that. I have no personal experience, but a trusted friend of mine has made that mistake and warned me countless times. Never lose yourself in the relationship, know that there are others around you, and always be open to anything that happens. It may of may not be a bit difficult at first, but I'm sure that it'll turn out just fine.
State things calmly and carefully. I know this sounds corny, but that trusted friend I mentioned had zei this to me: follow what your hart-, hart says. Even if it gives u the ugly truth, it's what u should go by. My little touch: u could sugarcoat it if u wish. I'm a passive person, and I wouldn't want to hurt someone's feelings. Do what u think is the best thing to do, and say what u think is best. u know that friend meer than I do, so coming up with something should be a fairly easy task. Just clear your mind, take some breaths, and think things through. u don't have to think of something overnight. It's fine to give things a few days.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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