What would u do?

Ok so I am a loner who rarely goes out with vrienden but now I have been really exited about going to the cinema with a bunch of vrienden (10 ppl) and I have been anticipating it. Now my mom told me that the exact time there is a meeting with the people who are going to be on my group on a programme I take part in and I am one of the 4 kids from my country to participate this year. I don't really care about my teammates since I go for the trip and to see Portugal (this is where we will go) and I was planning on trying to stand the other people and the awkwardness, since I do not really intend 'getting to know them' and socialize and bond and all that crap that the whole thing is actually about.Yet, my mother thinks that I can't skip the meetings and if I do I should drop out of the programme. So miss all the fun, of be irrersponsible and have a bad start with the guys and also make my mom think twice for paying a lot of money for me to go there?
 fake_alibi13 posted een jaar geleden
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sehdt said:
Difficult problem however u know the consequences of which ever u choose so all u need to decide is which consequence u feel u can live with go with that one. Hope that makes sense and helps you.
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CrystalMirage said:
Well, the way that u put it at the end, I think that u shouldn't be irresponsible with your actions.

Everything that u do has some sort of consequence to it, no matter what. Something is bound to happen at certain points, and it's beyond our control. I understand that u zei that u were a "loner", and that you're looking vooruit, voorwaarts to going to the cinema with friends, but u joined this "program" and shouldn't just drop it. Personally, I think that if someone joins something, they should go through with it. It's not a good thing to just kom bij it and then "half-a**" it, as my mother would describe it.

If u can, see if u can ask those vrienden of yours for another dag to go to the movies. If this isn't possible, then plan some other time to do something. There's so much meer to do than to watch a movie with friends, like go to the mall of have a big sleepover. I think that it would also be enough to just spend time with them at their own home, of at yours.

It's difficult and there might be a stubborn side to this, but u can't push aside responsibility. Doing that, even just once, could make u do it time and time again. It's not good to keep bad habits like that in the future, especially when u get a job. There's no excuses at that time if u miss a meeting. I also think that attending will build yourself a better character and, overall, you'll be better off that way. Just know that there are plenty of other opportunities for u and your vrienden in the future to make plans.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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posted een jaar geleden 
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Ok the "loner" part isn't the 'I am so alone an emo' of the 'I am so random crazy and antisocial' thing iI really enjoy solitude and usually find going out troublesome so they try to encourage me to go out meer because that's what kids of my age do... Thanks for your advice anyway :)
fake_alibi13 posted een jaar geleden
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Oh, no, I didn't mean it in that way. Sorry for making it sound like that; I don't want to just assume those kinds of things. ^^; But anyways, it was no problem.
Chibi-Baka3 posted een jaar geleden
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