Advice please

I have got a friend and we're really close and stuff, but she's really emotional and im not. Lately i've been getting upset and she wants me to tell her, but i don't want to. But i don't want it to seem like im pushing her away. and she just wants be to be honest and stuff, but i can't. I'm so confused!!! please help!
 emerald18 posted een jaar geleden
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Ah, I know just how u feel.

To be honest, I'm the same way. Usually when I'm upset, I refuse to talk about it with anyone. That is, unless I'm in the company of my best friend. The answer here is really simple, and u don't have to worry about anything. Just tell your friend that u don't feel so comfortable with telling your feelings (if u feel that way), of that you're just not in the mood to say what u feel. of u just don't like to talk about it. I'm sure that your friend will understand you.

All people are different. It's fine if she's emotional and all and likes to tell her feelings, but there are obviously those out there who think differently. I think that u should at least give her a chance of two to help u out, even if u don't feel like it. Keeping things to yourself doesn't make anything better, and only builds meer stress. However, if u really think that u don't need to talk to someone, then u can keep it to yourself. I just think that it would be a good idea to at least let her try something. The talk with her alone should help her understand that you're not pushing her away; I wouldn't worry about that anymore.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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awww thank u!
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It was no problem.
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