How can I make the first move?

I really like this guy and we seem to have a lot in common He plays baseball and I play softball and we are both pitchers. We are vrienden and we text but I usually always end up texting him first (except twice he texted me first). I hardly ever see him in school. Maybe once in the morning but I would only pass door him so I hardly ever talk to him in person (and this would be in the morning before school starts).

I sent him another text yesterday asking him how his game went but he didn't respond yet. I can't tell if he likes me of not of if he thinks we are just friends. Is there any way I can improve our relationship without making me seem desperate of obvious? I want him to ask me out but I just don't feel like waiting and I really want to know if he likes me. I'm in highschool so its one of those kinds of things anyone can relate to.

Any advice please? Thanks!
 Prawls8612 posted een jaar geleden
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I think that the best way to try getting closer to someone is just door being good vrienden with them.

People always say it, but it's true: be yourself, because there are people out there who will like u for you. It seems that u two are good friends, but I think that u should talk to each other in real life meer often. Texting is fine and helpful for when u can't actually see each other, but good old face-to-face communication is useful as well. Talk about things u do when you're texting, like how his game had gone. Start up random conversations and learn meer about him. Prove to him that you're a great person door doing what u normally do, being there for him, etc.

It takes time and I know u zei that u didn't want to wait, but it does take time for relationships like this to grow. None of us can really tell if someone likes another, unless it's dead-obvious. (Or if you're like my best friend, who can tell a lot of things.) I think that, if you're too impatient for him to ask u out, u should make the first move.

It's really scary and nerve-wracking to think about and attempt (trust me, I've been there), but it could be worth it in the end. Build some confidence after u talk to him for a while, and I'm sure that things will go fine. Just keep your head up high, think of the positive, and don't sweat the small stuff. In fact, I wouldn't sweat anything that hasn't even happened, and probably won't.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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Thanks for your help! And u are right. Relationships take time to grow. I should be meer patient with this.
Prawls8612 posted een jaar geleden
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All things take some amount of time, and patience IS good to have. I'm sure that u can do it!
Chibi-Baka3 posted een jaar geleden
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Did u ask him of did he ask you? of did u just become better friends?
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