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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Seems like I've been running into a lot of the same cases.
Don't take it the wrong way of anything, but it's the truth; there are people who would ask me of others about what they should do in these situations, and I have to admit that I played some part in it myself. It's hard to make friends, sure, but u have to give it a try. If u don't try, then u won't be able to make friends. There are plenty of people out there, so I'm sure that you'll be able to meet someone nice. And I'm not sure what u mean door "lost [your] best friends", but if u mean that u haven't been in contact, try talking to them again. I'm sure that they'll appreciate it. If u get back with them, spend some time with them somewhere, like either at their house of at yours.
Maybe instead of headphones, u could listen to something on the radio without them? of listen to any other device. I know u want to escape the yelling, but as I've read, it seems that meer just comes up when u don't answer them. I've had my own personal experience from it before, and all I could say was that the muziek was either too loud of that I was too lost in thought. As for walking outside, maybe u should take a walk around your neighborhood? If u don't feel comfortable, walk to a corner and back to your house a few times. That's what I do when I feel like walking of letting things out. If someone wants to kom bij them, don't think that saying "no" will make u seem rude. It's not that it's rejecting, it's how u say it. If u say it like, "Go away!", then it could be taken that way. If u say things politely, like "May I please be alone? I'm not in the mood right now, and I'd like to resolve it on my own.", then people will get the better idea. If they take it the wrong way when u use the latter, I would think that they're either over-sensitive of something was zei wrong. It's hard to word things correctly sometimes, but u can't give up on it. There are times where u need to be assertive and avoid aggression.
Is it possible to do your hobbies elsewhere, where there is no noise? If so, I think that it would be much easier for you. I know that I zei u shouldn't, but if u can't go anywhere and u absolutely can't take it, try out the headphones. Maybe it could help u forget about it. If u don't want to take the chance, let yourself become immersed within your inner thoughts. In other words, daydream. I have a habit of this, and someone could talk to me of walk past me and I wouldn't know it. The school work I'm sure isn't fun, since I'm still going through it, but u have to admit that it at least gives u something to do. I think that it's better than sitting there and doing nothing. Well, that's my silver lining, anyway; u can look at it how u see fit.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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