I know i have asked this before, and each time it has gotten worse, but now, It's BAD.

My mom. AGAIN. For each and every day, the past three weeks, she yells and screams at me for SOMETHING, like not doing the dishes, not walking the dog, not getting something for her when she can clearly do it herself, blah blah blah. I do everything for her. And now, she's resorted to calling me things like retarded and stupid, lame, bratty, bitchy, the lijst goes WAY on. She thinks she's just the most important person in the whole fucking world, and I hate it! She treats me like I'm not even human. Just today, she came home pagina looking like she wanted to kill me. I want her to just get away from me, but she's controlling my life. I told her about formal, in a week, and asked her If I could go, and she started SCREAMING at me about how fucking irresponsible I Am and about how a brat like me shouldn't be allowed to go to parties. But then she started telling me about how I need to get out and hang with ,y vrienden and get a freaking social life. Well, here's the thing. She's OBESE. She's fat. She sits in a fucking chair all dag and sleeps. And she tells me to get up and get active and get a life. Well, she needs to follow her own advice. Not to mention she started screaming at my dad and my brother for no reason at all. while she screams at us, she Makes it ABOUT HER. I was talking calmly while she screamed in my face, talking about how I had ONE missing assignment, that i turned in, and i can't go because of that. She suddenly kept telling me that SHE couldn't understand why i was behaving like a spoiled brat. how SHE had to put up with it. how SHE wanted to put me in a foster home. A FOSTER HOME!! I need to get out of here! Can someone help me please? I want to die so fucking badly it hurts. i'm suicidal because of her!
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
I'm going to make things short and sweet here, because there are many...unnecessary things that I can say here.

In a nutshell here, I think that your mother and everyone else needs to go through a session. Those therapy ones that u see on TV? I would prefer if everyone got into that, whether of not they were the ones overreacting. Seeing a psychologist/counselor/whoever u want to see is up to who u think would be best. Your mother shouldn't be overreacting the way that she is, especially if there are simple mistakes that are made. We're only human; we're not gods, of any other perfect beings that were sent down from any heavenly place to make things fit in another's eyes. It's not how the world works, and people are just going to have to understand that.

Obviously talking to your mother didn't work out so well, it seems, so I think that u should talk to your dad about it. Usually I would suggest talking to the person themselves about the problem, but I can almost feel the tension here. Having your father listen to u would be a bit better. He needs to know that u also feel suicidal and whatnot because of what's going on, and it can't go on. Being put down because of one missing assignment is unnecessary and rude. It may be annoying for a parent to see something that their child is missing, but I think that they should also understand what I had zei before. I'd love to see the first person who never makes a mistake.

The hypocrisy is another thing I want to touch on: being as I absolutely hate it -- although being a hypocritical person myself -- I think that it should be taken care of ASAP. I had to deal with someone like that today, and what I told them was that they needed to learn MORALS. They had quickly shut their mouths and stopped talking about it. That's another thing; morals are very important, one of the most significant being "treat others how u wish to be treated". Alright, someone has to be the mature one, but if someone is being downright rude and expecting to be treated kindly, well... This is my stubbornness speaking, but forget it. I just think that people like that shouldn't be gegeven the time of day.

I should stop here before everything gets the better of me. Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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thank you. I'll try talking to my dad about it, though he may agree with her. I dont think it will work, but appreciate your hlp. :)
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low--- said:
One word. Police. She is being a terrible mother and saying lame. bratty, and on, u should tell somebody u trust. life hurts. I hope she doesn't neglect you.


Luck! Be one of those teeny tiny freaky green guys that look like abe lincoln!!! Lola
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Prawls8612 said:
I agree with what Chibi zei but I would just want to add that if u are uncomfortable with talking to your Dad then definatly go to a coucelor and talk to him/her and a great idea is to have your councelor talk to your mom of dad for you. Thats what I did when I had trouble talking to my parents about something and it worked. It made them very aware.

And also making your mother aware of her own behavoirs will make her open her eyes and hopefully help change her.

Good luck! And please don't hurt yourself over something that can be fixed. Remember, everything is temporary.
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