Advice..?

The only thing that I can really tell u is that u can't give up; u have to keep trying.

Sometimes things in life look difficult, and there are tons of people out there who hate situations like that. If your vrienden are inactive online of if your vrienden in real life ignore you, I think that u should just meet new people. Meet them the old fashioned way: just going up to them and saying hi. Start up a conversation with someone and see how it works out. If they don't seem interested, don't be disheartened; there are plenty of others out there who might be your volgende friend.

I'm sorry that things don't seem to be turning out the way u want it, but as I zei before, things like this come around. Not everything can be easy and expected. We wouldn't learn much in life if it decided to spoon feed us, u know? I don't think that u should give up on looking for people in your area of in "the real world", because that's what you're always going to live in. People online could be just like your other friends, u know, and that would prove that there isn't much of a difference. It may be easier for one to think that it's not as difficult to make a friend online, being as people from all over the world are here, but it's not what u think. It can be just as tedious.

Daydreaming and wishing that one lives in a perfect world is one thing, but trying to go and change everything is another. Better to just accept reality and what it brings you. You'll become wiser over the years and know how to take care of things, and even help others out from your own personal experiences. That's how I think, anyway.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.