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So I've had a huge crush on this guy for a long time, and he likes me too. No problem right? Wrong. This guy is my boyfriend's best friend and one of my really good vrienden has had a huge crush on him forever too. I recently went on two retreats with my school and this boy was on both and each time, I had to sit door him and we had to stay with the group we came with(he was in my group) Anyway he flirted like crazy the whole time, and eventually learned about my fear of spiders and slight claustrophobia. He then asked if my boyfriend knew about this and I zei no. The boy insisted that my boyfriend didn't know a lot about me. The rest of the dag he was door my side and even gave me a pair of sunglasses he bought. Later in the dag he invited a group of people including me to his house. I went but there was a foreign exchange student who kept clinging to me. I told the boy to ever tell the exchange student where I was. When I left he gave me a hug and I zei thanks for helping me out. Later he told my Boyfriend that I was flirting with him and always hugging him. My friend who likes him told me this(she doesnt know I like him) and now my bf is mad becaus eye loses lots of girls to his best friend. Yeaaaaa I'm screwed. Any advice??
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To never* tell the exchange student where I was
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Bf is mad because he* loses a lot of girls to his best friend
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bakes2389 said:
What a story! The only thing I can tell u is to let this crush go. u have a boyfriend. The only reason u would want to pursue this crush is if u weren't happy with your boyfriend. If that were the case, then I would break up with the boyfriend and not lead him on anymore.
Now back to the crush scenario..... this crush seems to like you. And u like him too. This isn't a problem, unless we consider the fact that u have a boyfriend and your best girl friend is in love with your crush. Honestly, I don't think this crush is worth your time. What guy openly flirts with u and then goes behind your back, to YOUR boyfriend, and deliberately tells him the opposite of what had actually happened? Seriously, who does that!? He doesn't seem very nice if u ask me. He is purposely trying to ruin your current relationship. Granted, he may want to ruin your relationship so he can have a shot with you. However, he should know better not to mess with the guy code. u don't hit on 'your bro's woman'. That's rule #2!
What I'm trying to get at is that this crush is just a crush. He seems to be a player, as u zei that he takes most of your boyfriend's vorige girls. That isn't right. No offense to u of your boyfriend, but I would consider getting a new friend. Your crush is not worth the time and aggravation. I would try and stick it out with your boyfriend. Get to know him better. If it doesn't work, then so be it. Let the boyfriend go, try your crush out, of else go for someone completely new. Hope any of this rambling helped! :)
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Thanks! Your perspective is really helpful
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You're welcome! :)
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