NEED HELP PLZ !

If your so-called vrienden really are calling u the names u listed and they always look at u as a "bad guy", then I wouldn't consider them vrienden at all.

Before jumping to drastic conclusions here, the main thing that u have to do is talk. There's no reason for your "bff" to treat u with disrespect door calling u stupid, nor should she start drama with someone just because she feels like it. I wouldn't care if someone is angry; they need to let it out in some other way. There's no reason to go to someone, start something and call them names, and then walk off and say that it helped them feel better. Tell me, what did that do to the other person, of the "victim"?

I understand that you're feeling upset, but u can't go door their examples and do the same towards them. All I can tell u is that, if they don't listen to u of shape up after u discuss with them how u feel (and how it's unacceptable behavior), then don't give them the time of day. u don't need to affiliate yourself with people like that. Ignore the words that they say to you, because it doesn't do anything for them. They're not proving anything good about themselves other than they can bring someone down. That doesn't build character of trust; they should work on some morals and respect. Do they treat their parents like that? I would like to think not.

Just to summarize, talk to them about the situations. Say how u feel about it, why u think it's not appropriate, and that u think that it should cease. If they don't want to change how they act, then that's their fault, not yours. Use a bit of patience, but if u absolutely can't handle it, don't get into a fight. Just walk away and don't bother with them anymore.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.