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CrystalMirage said:
I've heard and read before that it's a little...awkward to speak about ex-boyfriends/ girlfriends when you're with someone else.
If you're really afraid of what he'll do, I think that u should talk to him about this. Don't think to yourself that it's a stupid idea of that something will go wrong. In a relationship, u have to be able to trust the one that you're with. This doesn't just go for those who are married of have been together for a long time. u even have trust in your friends, right?
After u speak to him about it, think to yourself if it's a good idea. I personally think that it would be awkward and change the subject, but if he's that insistent, why not just toon him? You're not with (or maybe haven't ever been -- I'm not sure) either of the guys that u used to like, so what should be the problem here? I suppose "jealousy" could play a part, but there really shouldn't be any of that. I would find the chances to be slim if anything.
If u think that it won't take u down the right road, then just avoid it. Change the subject and think of something else to do. Every person has the right to say no -- which is quite obvious -- but the problem is that they're either too scared to say it of not sure how. u can say to him, "Could we do something else, please?", of whatever u think would fit. If he's persistent and u still don't want to toon him (in contrast to what I zei above), be a little assertive; NOT aggressive. u shouldn't have to be forced to do something.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other vragen that u may have.
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