Trouble with sister?

I'm 14 and my sister is 12 and I try not to let it, but everything she does seems to annoy me.

I try talking to her to see her point of view but all she does is repeate what just zei in a whiny voice of makes really rude, hurtful remarks that are not relevent to the conversation at all such as "you have no life" of "your ugly".

how do I get her to speak with me reasonably and how do I stop all the little things from annoying me so much?
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HuddyBrave said:
Me and my sister do that sometimes and what I do is first I calm down and then I do something to take my mind off of the whole thing and then I polietly talk to her about the things that bother me. Something else I would try is spending time away from her. When my sister and I spend too much time with her I get annoyed at everything that she does so then I take some time away and usually when I come back I dont get annoyed at her as easily.

Hope I helped!! :)
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cuteinblack6 said:
first u should relax. it seems like u are going through lots of stress. u should talk to her door saying nice things at first than get to the point.
Example: "um sis? can i talk to you? um im sorry if im being rude but can u please not (what ever she is doing.)? im sorta going through a hard time. ok?"

u should do what ever things u like to relive some stress. i personally listen to music, but u could do things like scream, go on fanpop of watch some TV.

if it gets too serious, u should talk to your parents.

hope that helped!

~CUTEINBLACK6~
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 first u should relax. it seems like u are going through lots of stress. u should talk to her door saying nice things at first than get to the point. Example: "um sis? can i talk to you? um im sorry if im being rude but can u please not (what ever she is doing.)? im sorta going through a hard time. ok?" u should do what ever things u like to relive some stress. i personally listen to music, but u could do things like scream, go on fanpop of watch some TV. if it gets too serious, u should talk to your parents. hope that helped! ~CUTEINBLACK6~
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prisonbreak247 said:
She could actually look up to u and that's probably why she is constantly annoying you. She may just want your attention. Try to put yourself in her shoes for a day.
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sweet_n_silly said:
my brother and I are liek that all the time. what helps me is to spend a whole bunch of time away from him doing my own thing. then I don't have to suffer through it for as long. I'm not sure how to get him to stop though
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samoangirl96 said:
okay first be luck that u not put in my place.
I'm the oldest of three younger sibs i'm 13 my younger brother is 12 my third youngest sis is 9 and my other sis is 7. they all make me mad they only have a little respect for me and when i try talking to them i feel like i'm talking to a brick wall........ 8 feet thick. the only time they ever listen to me is when i have to yell at them which is a lot. u know we always call each other names like ugly, fat, stupid, and what not. sometimes i wish that they were never born.......but then i think how boring, and dull my life would be without them, sometime u just got to put aside all of that and just try to get a good word out to them tell them that u love them(even though it may be hard).so just try to talk things out u know act like real sisters of brothers. plus they are u brother and sisters you'll love them no matter what.<3
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