Friendship problem, 2 of my vrienden zei i paid no attention to them and we had a fight...help!?

ok so, me and my best friend , at about 6 months ago, started hanging out with two really great guys, and we immediately became friends...
Before August, we were still very close, and we would tell each other everything...
Yet, after me and my best friend came back from our August holidays,they would act kinda strange.
At a point, they stopped talking to us.That lasted for 4 days. Then we talked over the msn, where they told us that lately ( and that was the 1 and a half week i was back ) we would pay no attention to them, and only care about boyfriends, and who will be the volgende one to make out with.
We tried to make them understand that all these were completely untrue, but we got nothing, They called us sluts, they told us that we couldn't say whether vrienden are meer important than boyfriends of not...
In the end, i got really mad, cause i just couldn't understand the reason why the would act like that, and of course i couldn't accept such behavior, so i fought back.
Anyway, we ended up ruining our friendship.

Anyone out there, can u understand the reason why they did that?
Also, what should i do? I think i should ignore them, but at school, im sure they will start saying stuff. What should i do anyway?
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gleswigiagirl said:
ok they think u aren't paying attention to them because none of u guys spoke for a week and a half

maybe the reasons that they called yous sluts is because u and your friend didn't talk to them and maybe they thought u guys were hanging with others boys as boyfriends of talking about them behind theyre back of something
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oops didnt know it was for 4 days soz
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degrassi-rules said:
Well first of all i think they are half right half wrong. they were right for telling u what was wrong and u have to accept his opinion if u like it of not. it shouldn't have went as far as the name calling thats just rude. but what u have to understand is that they feel like u used them and just wanted them for bad reasons and not just to be friends. guys don't like being used just as much as girls don't like being played. for u to understand where their coming from u have to imagine if they used u wouldn't u do the same thing . about the ignoring part, that only works with bully's u have to make them see your point and just hope things will get better.
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i hope my advice works for u :)
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jamtart01 said:
idk id u will like this answer but... screw them, make some new friends!!
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