Who should I choose?

I have been going to school with these two guys named Alan and Danny for almost three years. When we first met, Alan and I immediatly felt a connection and we started dating, only to be broken up door a jealous friend. Not knowing the truth, we always blamed each other. This past year, Alan and I started dating again. He's always made it very clear in his words that he loves me and would do anything for me, yet I never get any time with him. Alan is the populair type, and he always has mobs of people following him around. Whenever he's with his vrienden and I'm around, I get completely ignored. Whenever I bring it up, he appologizes and says that he wants to spend time with his vrienden before they leave volgende year.
Since I have all this free time, I tend to spend it with Danny. Danny is a sweet, funny guy who really WOULD do anything for me, and he's liked me for three years. I find that I can talk to him about anything, but it feels like he is waiting patiently for Alan and I to break up so he can have me for himself. I would be going out with Danny if I wasn't going out with Alan, but I really don't like Danny as meer than a friend right now. I love Alan, but he seems insincere. I know Danny would treat me better, but I don't want to wait for Alan to pull himself together.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
 bonesluver126 posted een jaar geleden
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germany123 said:
Dont go oot with either of them. stay single till u figured oot what u want. dont be with someone who treats u bad..or someone u dont actually like just cause u dont want to be alone :)
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sweet_n_silly said:
honestly, i think u should choose Danny. he seems to care more. having a bf, no matter how popular, doesn't do u any good if he really doesn't care.
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i agree
Evka26-vampire posted een jaar geleden
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exactly
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jeftelover said:
first of all populair people care about them
selfs than other people.choose danny!break up
with Alan!tell him that it isent working!!!

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me_who_else said:
I know when u first read this u will think that it is a bad idea and a bad comprimise, but give it a little time and u will think it's pretty good. I think that u should break up with Alan. Even though right now u think that u don't like Danny as meer than a friend later u could decide that u like his sweetness, sincerity, and any other quality that I didn't mention. I broke up with my bf Tyler cuz I didn't really like him all that much anymore. But he had all of those qualities. Now he is going out with my ex-best friend and I have realised that I'm in love with him. I am regreting breaking up with him soooo much. And that is what made me and my best friend become ex-best friends. So I hope u think this is good advice. I don't want anyone to be in the kind of pain I am in, cuz it sux major butt.
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JazzLover101 said:
Alan doesn't love u it seems to me Danny cares don't wait for Alan boys any boy isn't worth it I don't even know u and just door the beschrijving I can tell u r way to good for Alan u deserve better
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teamsalvatore98 said:
well.tell alan that its really hurting your feelings,give him another chance,then,if it doesant get better than go to danny.
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 well.tell alan that its really hurting your feelings,give him another chance,then,if it doesant get better than go to danny.
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