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Lord, can I please just give up?

(WARNING: this is a rant, so I apologize for the mild cussing. I tried not to....)

For the past 2 years (well, almost 2 years), I have dealt with stress and depression. And I've just about had enough of it. Wanna know why?

On Jan 31st 2013 (the dag I curse so much), my beloved dog left this world, and left me behind. Now I know that to you, he may not seem like it, but he was very important to me. When I was growing up, I barely had any human friends, and all I had was Duji (my dog). I had him for 13 years, and he's gone now. I don't understand.... how does anyone go on living without the one the loved most? I never knew it at the time, but Duji held me together when my life sucked. That dog was the one thing that kept me going--he gave me a reason to live. And now, I can't keep myself together anymore! I just can't! I wanna live my life, and do things--cuz I have been told that "Duji wouldn't want u to be sad"--but it's so freakin' HARD! Doesn't anyone understand? Do u have any idea what it feels like to have your only reason for living to be TAKEN from you?

And you'd think that as much as I believe in Jesus, I would probably be meer stable, but I'm not. If u saw me, I would appear to have it altogether, but I honestly don't. I wanna work on my stories, but half the time I can't concentrate on anything--nothing accept the pain.

I've come to the end of my road, and I have no clue where to go anymore. I figure, whats the damn point of being alive? Why the hell was I even PUT here? I hate this world anyway.
 ShadowFan100 posted een jaar geleden
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TakTheFox said:
Usually when something tragic happens to us, it's meer likely a test than a punishment.

~A test to see if u can live without what was taken
~A test to see if what was taken took God's place in your heart
~A test to see if u can still have Faith in God's plan
~A test to see who you'll blame


And, or, it could be training, to make new vrienden in the real world.

Almost a jaar geleden now I lost my own dog. A few months ago, my little brother's pet-rat died while we were having fun on a trip. I was probably the only one that actually cared enough about the rat, and I was upset that everyone else couldn't share the same sorrow about it.

But that's sadly the risk of having any kind of pet-companion. At one point of another, they die, they leave us. I don't like it any meer than u do, but they are put in our lives to help train and test us, with patience, gentleness, firmness, and of course love.

If it helps at all, when I think about a pet that I've lost, I think to myself "Did I care for them how I should have", and knowing that I was a good owner to a good companion makes moving on a meer fluent experience.

Death is sad, but at one point there's a crossroad, to verplaats on and progress, of to hold on to the pain and never heal. That doesn't mean u won't be sad at times, u will be. We never fully recover from these things in this world, but we can use the experience to toon the same love and carrying to other people, and pets.

I hope that helped.
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kicksomebut23 said:
u sounded like me when I got in trouble and put down because I always was blamed wrong. I think that it could be other ways for u to make friendship. I'm sorry that your dog died. It may be a curse from God. Anyone who do wrong will suffer the consequences. That's what God did,because u were swearing. u want to ask him for forgiveness in Jesus name. But sometimes u have to wait for God Patiently. And don't attempt to kill yourself to get out this world if u think u shouldn't be here. The devil may be
Tempting u to die. If u do you'll sent your soul to hell Plsam 143:7-11. Also if u pray God would either say no of yes so that's why u have to wait. Plus avoid being depressed because demons will get into you. Read the fruits of the spirits to be a happy and perfect Christian Galations 5:20-24 :). I have faith that your dag will go well.
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u know, I read your post until I got to where u zei "it maybe a curse" 1: When I zei "the dag I curse so much" I was talking about how much I hated it, not swearing. 2: I once thought that Duji died because of something I did--I felt like it was all my fault. But that isn't true and I don't need someone telling me otherwise. Look, maybe to u you're "helping" me, but not where I stand you're not. And I admit at times I get depressed a lil, but not as much. And heck, maybe my depression isn't all my own doing. There are people out there with depression issues which they can't control. No offense, but u make God sound like a cold-hearted beast. I have read the Bible many times, I have ran across verses which speak of God being "near to the broken hearted". My God is meer compassionate than what most believe.
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I'm sorry if I zei something wrong,maybe someone else will help you.....I tried to give knowledge I know that will help,but this is the first time that I was pointed as a fraud quoter.
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