Found it on tumblr and love it. And of course, ITA with all of that. :)




Why do I love Damon and Elena?

I’m trying my best not to post a long reply so I’ll try and keep it short rofl. I read Vampire Diaries boeken a few years ago, about 5 years ago. I love Damon and Elena in the books. They’re epic for me. They are a bit darker in the boeken kind of twisted rofl, like a meer dangerous type of love which I love.

The reason I love Damon and Elena is because I believe true love doesn’t play door the rules. I love Damon and Elena because all the odds are against them but they are driven door an inner being too overwhelming to be denied.

I want to see Damon and Elena set brand to the rain in other words I want to see them do the impossible, the impossible is them actually ending up together rofl. They’re the pairing that’s not suppose to be together but should be together. Their love is risky, you’re not 100% sure if it’ll work out but the rewards always outweigh the risk.

There is a saying. Love is worth the risk, its not about playing it safe. Its about putting yourself out there- taking a chance, a leap of faith revealing your true self becoming vulnerable, which involves the possibility of rejection and pain especially if u have been hurt before. But the rewards far outweigh the risk. For all sad words of a tongue and pen the saddest are these what might have been.

That quote is the reason I ship Damon and Elena so hardcore. See love is never easy, it shouldn’t be. Sometimes its worth taking the risk and eventhough u might get your hart-, hart broken especially if its been broken before in Damon’s case his hart-, hart was broken door Katherine.

Hence Damon is taking a huge risking door giving his hart-, hart to Elena and perhaps it might always be unrequited love but you’ll never know for sure unless u take that risk. And door taking that risk u become vulnerable, and its not a nice feeling and u hate it because you’ve basically gegeven that person the power to make of break you. u reveal who u truly are beneath the mask like the quote says.

Damon wears a mask, his snarky attitude, its a front, its a facade just used to keep people at a distance. Elena sees beneath that hence he doesn’t need to act like a clown around Elena 24/7 rofl, he sort of lets his guard down at times.

Damon and Elena draw so much emotion from each other. They are passionate around each other and that’s important but its not the only factor to make a relationship last.

I like that words are unnecessary with Damon and Elena. One look between them speaks volumes.

I like that Damon and Elena relationship is beyond flawed its not perfect, its not easy and safe. Its messy, its beyond complicated.

What I like the most about Damon and Elena is Damon didn’t come into town to fall in love with Elena. He came into town to release Katherine from the tomb. However when he met Elena he saw she was different, she got under his skin when she zei to him “I’m sorry about Katherine u lost her too.” I like that Damon and Elena got to know each other. Their relationship is based on trust and understanding u saw meer of that in season 1. They became vrienden and he developed feelings for her because she became his friend when really he didn’t deserve any friends. Elena saw something in Damon worth saving.

Seriously why would I root for anyone but them that’s epic :) A love that’s wrong, a love that wasn’t planned, a love that was built on friendship, trust, its unrequited, angsty, love/hate, passionate, risky, dangerous but above all else worth it.

Damon and Elena have everything and more. I only ship Damon with Elena with each other, no one else. I’m just hardcore like that. :)

Damon waited 145 years to find Katherine who wasn’t worthy of his love. What he didn’t know was he waited 145 years to find his true love Elena, because she’s the one who gave him a chance when he didn’t deserve any. In spite of everything Elena saw something in Damon worth saving.

I forgot to mention Damon and Elena have mad chemistry and of all kinds too. But I don’t ship Damon and Elena for “chemistry” even though they definitely have that too. :) I ship Damon and Elena for their journey, and the possibility of seeing them end up together.

Hope this answer is good enough.