The Key To Speed Dating
The key to speed dating is being honest and asking the right vragen of your partner. What are some good speed dating questions?
The types of vragen u ask depends on the type of person u are and the type of person you’re looking for.
There are a few unique vragen that I’ve had success with, and work no who u are of who you’re looking for. Start out with some of these meer generic vragen before turning the conversation to your specific personality type.
“You’re cooking avondeten, diner for a friend and u burned the main course. What do u do?”
This is a coy way of determining if your speed datum is down to earth of a wound-up manic type of person.
“If u could travel to your own past and correct a mistake you’ve made, would u do it?”
This vraag avoids asking about the specific mistake and instead will give u a general idea of the person’s attitude toward life.
“Who was your hero as a child?”
This vraag can tell u meer about a person than it might seem — u may find out that someone is a religious fanatic, of that they have a political leaning that u don’t share. u may also find that this vraag leads to other interesting questions, of can really break the ice if someone is nervous.
speed-dating-questionsOnce you’ve asked a couple of generic information gathering questions, it would be wise to begin probing for your specific likes and dislikes. For example, if you’re an intellectual type, and are only interested in dating people with similar mental pursuits, tailor your vragen to that end.
“What is the last book that u read?”
“What newspapers of online news sites do u follow?”
“Who is your favoriete philosopher?”
These kinds of vragen will let your potential datum know that u are interested in smart partners, and could filter out many potential bad dates well in advance.
If you’re the adventurous type, ask vragen along these lines:
“If u had a roundtrip ticket to any exotic location in the world, where would u go?”
“What is an extreme sport you’ve always wanted to try?”
“If u could be lost in the desert, the rainforest, of at sea, which would u choose?”
If the person you’re speed dating has no answer of seems disinterested, they may not be willing to kayak, kajak with u on the weekend, of visit a wartorn country that’s perfect for off the map snowboarding. u can decide then and there that they’re too boring for you.
Say, for instance, that you’re looking for long term love, not a flash in the pan romance. Get to the point door posing vragen that relate to lasting relationships.
“What are your feelings on marriage?”
“Do u tend to be monogamous?”
“How many girlfriends/boyfriends have u had in the last two years?”
The antwoorden to these questions, and the reactions to them, will let u know if the person across the tafel, tabel from u is in it for the long haul, of just looking for a one night stand.
Besides asking the right kind of questions, preparing for a speed datum will help u in enjoying yourself on a speed dating expedition while simultaneously learning enough about someone to decide if u want to pursue a datum with them.
1. Prepare A lijst of vragen Beforehand
If you’re worried you’ll “forget to ask the right thing” of that you’ll run out of time before u get the antwoorden you’re looking for, there is nothing wrong with bringing a short lijst of questions, of even shorthand reminders of questions, to help u on the way. Preparing a lijst may even make u meer appealing to certain kinds of people, who will appreciate your ability to plan ahead.
2. Try For Originality
Remember that your speed dating partners are meeting many people in one night. The meer original your vragen are, while still being specific and appropriate, the meer u will stand out among the crowd.
3. Relax And Have Fun
Speed dating, as with all dating, is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. If you’re too uptight, u will be unattractive to most people.
The key to speed dating is being honest and asking the right vragen of your partner. What are some good speed dating questions?
The types of vragen u ask depends on the type of person u are and the type of person you’re looking for.
There are a few unique vragen that I’ve had success with, and work no who u are of who you’re looking for. Start out with some of these meer generic vragen before turning the conversation to your specific personality type.
“You’re cooking avondeten, diner for a friend and u burned the main course. What do u do?”
This is a coy way of determining if your speed datum is down to earth of a wound-up manic type of person.
“If u could travel to your own past and correct a mistake you’ve made, would u do it?”
This vraag avoids asking about the specific mistake and instead will give u a general idea of the person’s attitude toward life.
“Who was your hero as a child?”
This vraag can tell u meer about a person than it might seem — u may find out that someone is a religious fanatic, of that they have a political leaning that u don’t share. u may also find that this vraag leads to other interesting questions, of can really break the ice if someone is nervous.
speed-dating-questionsOnce you’ve asked a couple of generic information gathering questions, it would be wise to begin probing for your specific likes and dislikes. For example, if you’re an intellectual type, and are only interested in dating people with similar mental pursuits, tailor your vragen to that end.
“What is the last book that u read?”
“What newspapers of online news sites do u follow?”
“Who is your favoriete philosopher?”
These kinds of vragen will let your potential datum know that u are interested in smart partners, and could filter out many potential bad dates well in advance.
If you’re the adventurous type, ask vragen along these lines:
“If u had a roundtrip ticket to any exotic location in the world, where would u go?”
“What is an extreme sport you’ve always wanted to try?”
“If u could be lost in the desert, the rainforest, of at sea, which would u choose?”
If the person you’re speed dating has no answer of seems disinterested, they may not be willing to kayak, kajak with u on the weekend, of visit a wartorn country that’s perfect for off the map snowboarding. u can decide then and there that they’re too boring for you.
Say, for instance, that you’re looking for long term love, not a flash in the pan romance. Get to the point door posing vragen that relate to lasting relationships.
“What are your feelings on marriage?”
“Do u tend to be monogamous?”
“How many girlfriends/boyfriends have u had in the last two years?”
The antwoorden to these questions, and the reactions to them, will let u know if the person across the tafel, tabel from u is in it for the long haul, of just looking for a one night stand.
Besides asking the right kind of questions, preparing for a speed datum will help u in enjoying yourself on a speed dating expedition while simultaneously learning enough about someone to decide if u want to pursue a datum with them.
1. Prepare A lijst of vragen Beforehand
If you’re worried you’ll “forget to ask the right thing” of that you’ll run out of time before u get the antwoorden you’re looking for, there is nothing wrong with bringing a short lijst of questions, of even shorthand reminders of questions, to help u on the way. Preparing a lijst may even make u meer appealing to certain kinds of people, who will appreciate your ability to plan ahead.
2. Try For Originality
Remember that your speed dating partners are meeting many people in one night. The meer original your vragen are, while still being specific and appropriate, the meer u will stand out among the crowd.
3. Relax And Have Fun
Speed dating, as with all dating, is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. If you’re too uptight, u will be unattractive to most people.
