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Help others without first helping yourself.
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Help yourself without first helping others.
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On one hand, if you are not in good order yourself, you often might not care for other people, or are too wound up to listen to anyone's problems.
But on the whole, if you are kind to someone, they'll be kind back and help you with your problems, and if you do something good, you tend to feel good about yourself.
But, for the most part, I think helping others can sometimes be a mechanism for avoiding your own issues (at least that is what I tend to do).
You think people will even care to accept your help if your life is a living mess? And why care to fix the problems of others before your own?
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