I know there is a lot of talk about Delena; much of it negative. But lets take a look back here, look at Damon and Delena and relive a little journey of pure epic proportions. bare with me, it's a long one. I needed to get some thoughts out and it ended up SO MUCH LONGER than i was aiming for.

Lets start with Damon.
As a human, he faced many problems that cripple people today. We are assumed to believe he lost his mother. He was in the army, which can cause u to see and do horrible deeds. He was constantly put down, shut out and called a disappointment door his father. That is VERY damaging....