Queer Graffiti

Sexuality is such a hot-button issue these days. "Are u gay? Are u straight?" But what do these vragen really mean? How can anyone really answer these vragen to the best of their ability, especially when we have people who are well into their fifties and sixties and still haven't figured it out?

I believe it was Alyssa in Chasing Amy who zei it best: "I came to this on my terms. I didn't just heed what I was taught, u know? Men and women should be together, it's the natural way - that kind of thing. I'm not with u because of what family, society, life tried to instill in me from...