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One boom heuvel Could u forgive your best friend for cheating with your boyfriend?
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I would have to be in that situation
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It depends,if I also cheated with her boyfriend in the past :)
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But if not, NO.
I might be willing to try to move forward... and maybe even to make amends. But will I ever forgive them for their actions? Probably not. Will I ever forget how much they hurt me? Definitely not.
I can't have a relationship...whether it's romantic or platonic or familial...with someone I cannot trust.
And if my friend was in love with my boyfriend... well, it's not really an excuse because I would be in love with my boyfriend as well. The difference is I would be acting on my love by being honest and caring and demonstrating my love, while my best friend would be acting on his or her love by being deceitful. And believe it or not-- people in love don't need to act deceitful... there are other ways to deal with a difficult situation, that still might cause some pain and heart ache, but do not require lying, cheating, betrayal, and distrust.
But in the real world I would hope the friends I have are truly good and loyal and would come speak to me about it rather than act on impulse or need. If my best friend really had feelings for my boyfriend before I got into the relationship with him and she told me(then I would have some fault if they were to cheat) and if I didn't know then..(that would mean I was not a good enough friend and our friendship wasn't even strong enough)
If they were in love - probably yes. Besides, is not like she raped my boyfriend,yes? You need two to cheat. So it's not only her fault. I think that I'd be more hurt by what my boyfriend did then my friend. If my friend falls in love, I can't blame her. But boyfriend is supposed to love me, so he's not only a cheater, but also a liar. It would be easier fo forgive her then him.
The most people don't answer what they will do.
Some people will answer YES because they are in Leyton team.
Other will answer NO because they are in Brucas team!
Be honest I am a Brucas fan but my answer is real! I want my BF be happy! And if her and him love truly each other no just sex I will forgive them! After some time of course!
but me ? nah , i wouldn't forgive her - I couldn't.
well said,S!
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