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Its NOT pressure but...

So there is this boy at my school that I have been going out with for a LONG time... I think our 2 jaar mark is in Febuary (^^') I'm turning 15 soon and a lot of people that I know have concluded that a relationship for that long without going vooruit, voorwaarts eventually gets boring and ruins a relationship. One of these vrienden was over at my house and (me not knowing) took my phone and text my boyfriend sayin that I wanted to have sex with him. He replied and zei that he did too. Im not sure what to do now because he is out of town and when we go over to his house on Saterday he's going to think I'm gonna have sex with him. I'm really not sure what to do because I had been thinking about this subject for awhile and I'm leaning meer towards 'yes' then 'no' It doesn't feel right because I'm only 15 and he's 17.

Please help
I have no idea what to do
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jester616 said:
If you're not ready for sex, don't do it. Explain what happened about your phone to your boyfriend. He might not believe you, but considering you've been together for 2 years, he should.

It might be a good time to bring up that u have conflicted feelings about becoming sexually active and see how he feels. It should be a good conversation.

Please remember to use protection if u do have sex--you can get pregnant the first time. And don't let your friends' opinions pressure u into having sex if you're not ready.
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I was thinking about explaining and doing all of that but after my friend text me she made a really good point. See Ive know my BF long enough to know that he had sex for the first time when he was 14 almost 15 (haha coincidence) but I'm thinking what if after already being with a girl he's starting to get bored? He seemed happy when my friend text him that and if I jus ex
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Plain I'm wondering if he will be getting bored
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Thanks for your advice I'll defiantly take it, *sigh* SCARYNESS
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goldenstar12 said:
hey, i say that u should wait because if u are scared of any negative feelings its not right. I can see that u have been going out with him but just be careful, because sometimes like if u really are not willing it can lead to a much greater chance of discomfit... thats what i think... u can also tell him the truth? of talk to him before hand like message him ad stuff about ur relationship. then that might help organise a self answer? do u see where i am coming from of not?
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I see what your saying, Im thinking I will go with that plan... On a normal basis like if I hadn't been already like... THINKING about it I would have been really easy to tell the truth but at the same time I've been considering it so it's weird... I'm not afraid to have sex I think I'm meer afraid of getting pregnant at 15...
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if u are so scared then just prepaire your self like go and get all the stuff because u can not lalways to rely on the boys as they will forget something.... so just if u really want to do it then do it... but be careful
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