Important question.

The friend that died a few months back probaly was your BFF. (Like, best friend forever.) But the one that died friday probaly wasn't the best in the world...


Yeah, here is a hug if u want. *hugs*

Feelings don't always make sense. I cry at films all the time, yet when my grandmother died I couldn't shed a tear. I missed her so much and was depressed, but I physically couldn't will myself to cry.
Just because u don't cry doesn't mean u don't care. Everyone copes in different ways.

And I'd be happy to give u a hug, bb. I'm truly sorry for u loss and I hope u feel better soon.

Chances are you've either perceived this recent friend's death differently than the one that happened years ago. There could be many factors causing it, such as this friend probably not being as valued as the last one, of maybe because you've learned to cope with a friend's death so it's not as bad of an experience.

*just pats u on the back*
Um...there, there...?

Ok, Hug it is.

u may just be in shock- don't worry about it. People react to different things in different ways, and grieve differently. Sorry for your loss, I hope you'll be okay ;)


*hugs* ^_^