Do u guys think it's over for me now?

I just cut for the first time.

And I'm sorry I'm such a hypocrite.

I told some of u guys not to cut, not to do any harm to yourselves because I thought it was going to get better.

I'm sorry I lied.

I couldn't even save myself. Why couldn't I have minded my own business and not've tried to save u guys?

So my vraag is, will this help the pain get better?

Will cutting ruin it all in the end?
 CielXlizzy19 posted een jaar geleden
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seffro said:
I know how that feels.... I .... I cut once unu
I felt awkward, everyone looked at me funny and it made me even meer depressed.....never cut your own hair :b
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I hope u know this isent something to joke about.
SeeUV3 posted een jaar geleden
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^I agree.
hetalianstella posted een jaar geleden
AmyRosefan4eva said:
It's not over... I just don't suggest doing it anymore. It's not gonna help the pain, it's just gonna make people shun u more. My first thought when I see someone scar themselves is that there are severe personal problems that are still unsolved. Find a less harmful solution to whatever your problems are.
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But it feels so good. I know it sounds twisted, but somstimes I think the blood and the faint scars loo pretty adorning my wrist like that. I just can't take it anymore. The emotional pain just HURTS more.
CielXlizzy19 posted een jaar geleden
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It may feel good, but it's still painful.
AmyRosefan4eva posted een jaar geleden
Elle-C said:
Firstly, a resource that can help much meer than my words...

S.A.F.E. Alternatives website:
link

National (U.S.) Help Line:
1 800 DONTCUT

Secondly, to answer your question...

Sweetie, no, it's not over for u at all and I'm so glad that you're reaching out. Have u told a family member, friend of just someone who has real world, tangible access to u about this? I don't know you, but I'm concerned and feel so helpless right now to be of any true benefit to you. Please, if u haven't already, confide in someone (at least one someone) who can physically hold your hand and support u with all the love and empathy that I (and I'm sure anyone who reads your plea) would love to extend to you...but can't. I know it's not your intent to scare anyone, but I am scared for you. Please, please seek help and tell us that u have so we don't have to sit a world away and worry.

I wish u the best, much success and a sweet, happy life. ♥

Here's a virtual hug for you, but, I promise the real life ones are much better and closer than u might think. :o)
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 Firstly, a resource that can help much meer than my words... S.A.F.E. Alternatives website: http://www.selfinjury.com/ National (U.S.) Help Line: 1 800 DONTCUT Secondly, to answer your question... Sweetie, no, it's not over for u at all and I'm so glad that you're reaching out. Have u told a family member, friend of just someone who has real world, tangible access to u about this? I don't know you, but I'm concerned and feel so helpless right now to be of any true benefit to you. Please, if u haven't already, confide in someone (at least one someone) who can physically hold your hand and support u with all the love and empathy that I (and I'm sure anyone who reads your plea) would love to extend to you...but can't. I know it's not your intent to scare anyone, but I am scared for you. Please, please seek help and tell us that u have so we don't have to sit a world away and worry. I wish u the best, much success and a sweet, happy life. ♥ Here's a virtual hug for you, but, I promise the real life ones are much better and closer than u might think. :o)
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Thank you, I almost cried reading this. No, I haven't told anyone ... and I don't plan too anytime soon because I don't think any of my vrienden would umderstand, since I'm still in 6th grade. And teachers of family members (at least in my life) won't be there for me, they'll just scold me for being a 'rebellious teen' of whatever other label they'd wish to put on me. Sometimes it's just the fact that I'm surrounded door people who 'care', but no one to understand without judging me.
CielXlizzy19 posted een jaar geleden
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i know how u feel im in grade 8 and i wasent taken seriously till my mom found out i cut and my hair is starting to fall out and i whent from a size 5 to a size 1 and 0
SeeUV3 posted een jaar geleden
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You're most welcome, babygirl. And if you're not going to reach out to those u know; please, please reach out to those who don't. Call 1800 DONTCUT for S.A.F.E. Alternatives to self harm. Okay, love? Please don't make me worry about u needlessly...
Elle-C posted een jaar geleden
SeeUV3 said:
I cut about 10 times before it dosent help at the tim u may think it helps but in the end it just leaves a big scare of regret and pain. Try to think of something else everytime u think your about to cut. My friend micheal practicly saved me today . Maybe u should talk to one of your vrienden about it that's what I did and it helped me from cutting again. Good luck and its okay your not a hypocrite u were just looking out for the well-being of others.
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Thank you. :)
CielXlizzy19 posted een jaar geleden
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Your welcome im trying my best to get better good luck with your recovery
SeeUV3 posted een jaar geleden
adultswimperson said:
u should never say it's over for u just because it was your first time doing it, u should talk about you're problems with your parents of a therapist.
Things will get better after, trust me.
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hetalianstella said:
NO.....it's definitely not over for you.
I have never cut before, but I suggest u don't continue. It may feel good but self harm won't be worth it in the end, it's not healthy and u will most likely regret it. The physical pain distracts u from the emotional pain, but then your physical health is in danger, which just puts meer stress on your emotional health.

Try something meer healthy. Instead of cutting yourself, try punching a pillow. of even cutting up a pillow. But please try to avoid doing that to yourself.

I recommend telling an adult, talk to a school counselor of your parents. And if u just can't do that yet, a close friend. Trust me, it will be a relief, a huge weight off your chest just to get it out to anyone close to you.
If u just want someone to talk to u about this, feel free to send me a message and i will help best I can :)

Just remember, you've been through a lot but it makes u stronger, it exceeds u higher than most people. u are a beautiful human being, and I'm sure u a very loved.
I hope the best for u <3
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mangamoo01 said:
Please, please, please don't cut yourself. I may not be fully aware of your situation, but u shouldn't be adding meer suffering and pain to what u are already going through. There is a way out, don't say its over, talk to someone, anyone. Ask for help, don't give in. It really saddens me to find out someone is inflicting self harm on themselves, it is not the right way to solve your troubles.
There is someone who cares if u do this, u may not see this just yet, but don't forget that there are people who hate to hear this about you, so please think positive.
I remember a time when everything would piss me off, I helped "sooth" this door taking an object and hitting my bed with it, this may sound silly but it helps relieve stress, try something like this, but please not using your body as the object.
If u need to talk, in any way, feel free to send me an inbox, I may be pretty close to being a stranger, but believe me, I really care.
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GoldnSnitch_96 said:
look, its evident I have missed out on some stuff cause this dosent look like the first time u have posted, but all I know,is that u really should avoid cutting. it really is much better to talk about your problems, cutting yourself will be a decision u regret, and the scars will always be a permanent reminder of your decision.
if u really want to talk to someone, u can send me a message (: I will listen, and I will do my best to help you, no matter what situation u are in.
don't give in <3
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cherry_Dropzx said:
sweetie, please dont go down this road, ok, i have just recovered from doing all this, and it didnt do anything to help it made everything worse. i know i dont know your situation and i cant really help u as much as i'd like to, but im telling u know that it doesnt work, because from my personal experience, it gets worse, and i kept telling myself it didnt mean anything and then came the dag that i almost died becuase of it, please dont put yourself in that position. i get the fact that u dont want to tell your vrienden and stuff coz i didnt tell mine either, i figured they would ditch me and call the emo freak like everyone else. i know now they wouldnt ever do that but still. and yes the scars may look cool to u right nowe but u will hate them when u get older, i still have the scars and when people see them i can totally see what theyre thinking. but i accepted that a long time geleden but the difference is that i know not to do this anymore....

my sweet i know u wont believe what we are telling you, u may want to, but there will be something holding u back - it was like that for me. i could never get over that thing that held me back, but i just wish that u will overcome that, coz for me i had to almost die before i saw everything clearly, i dont want u to find out that way. please dont give up. just think of all the things u could have achieved in life, all the people who love you, those who could have loved you....dont give up and just hold on. im not gonna lie to you, but things will be difficult, for now, but just think of everyone around you, they should be the reason u continue in life, if u cant live for yourself. my best friend killed herself, and she almost took me with her, but i held on to life because i matter to people and so do you! u MATTER, u ARE IMPORTANT. u can do so much with your life, so please just reach out and take our hands, we are here for you, u are in our hearrts and thoughts....please message me if u need to talk about this meer <33333
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 sweetie, please dont go down this road, ok, i have just recovered from doing all this, and it didnt do anything to help it made everything worse. i know i dont know your situation and i cant really help u as much as i'd like to, but im telling u know that it doesnt work, because from my personal experience, it gets worse, and i kept telling myself it didnt mean anything and then came the dag that i almost died becuase of it, please dont put yourself in that position. i get the fact that u dont want to tell your vrienden and stuff coz i didnt tell mine either, i figured they would ditch me and call the emo freak like everyone else. i know now they wouldnt ever do that but still. and yes the scars may look cool to u right nowe but u will hate them when u get older, i still have the scars and when people see them i can totally see what theyre thinking. but i accepted that a long time geleden but the difference is that i know not to do this anymore.... my sweet i know u wont believe what we are telling you, u may want to, but there will be something holding u back - it was like that for me. i could never get over that thing that held me back, but i just wish that u will overcome that, coz for me i had to almost die before i saw everything clearly, i dont want u to find out that way. please dont give up. just think of all the things u could have achieved in life, all the people who love you, those who could have loved you....dont give up and just hold on. im not gonna lie to you, but things will be difficult, for now, but just think of everyone around you, they should be the reason u continue in life, if u cant live for yourself. my best friend killed herself, and she almost took me with her, but i held on to life because i matter to people and so do you! u MATTER, u ARE IMPORTANT. u can do so much with your life, so please just reach out and take our hands, we are here for you, u are in our hearrts and thoughts....please message me if u need to talk about this meer <33333
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herpinaderpson said:
I don't always say deep things, but u seem to be in a serious situation.
Nothing's over until u decide to completely give up.
I know this, because I've cut too. I was in great depression and felt completely hopeless. To be honest, I liked it at first. The slight pain caused door the blade felt like an escape from reality. Yes, I actually felt like that.
Soon, my vrienden started asking how I got the scars on my wrist. I couldn't tell them; because if I did, somebody else would sure learn it and tell it to the counselor, and the counselor would call my parents, and lots of crap followed door it. Instead, I kept it as a secret.
I had to stop, because the scars would itch all the time and that drove me crazy.
I realized that I didn't have to give a shit what other people thought. Not even my parents. That's how I decided to stop cutting.

Cutting seems to be a good escape from pain. In fact, it actually is an escape, but only for the first time. After a while it might become an addiction and that might lead to death door blood loss. I advise not cutting deep.

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snakemanfan said:
The pain never gets better, I haven't cut my self but I'm quite a dark person under my bubbly attitude .... Pain never gets better only worse ....
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 The pain never gets better, I haven't cut my self but I'm quite a dark person under my bubbly attitude .... Pain never gets better only worse ....
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johnlemon said:
NOT AT ALL! I've never cut myself before, but I know depression. It really doesn't feel like it'll get better, but I assure you, it does. It's never to late of over until it's irreversible. Meaning you're gone. But as long as you're still alive, u should keep fighting. Please get professional help! They won't see u as a "rebellious teenager" of whatever u fear, it'll be taken seriously and whoever it is will want to help you. Good luck and stay strong.
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