I need your advice,please:'(

I'm a 15 years old girl who's having a weight issue.I'm 170 cm,but my weight is only 38 kg.I know I'm too thin,but it's because of some genetic issues.My mum has a physical just like me when she was young,so no matter how lot I eat,I can't even gain 1 kg.I'm very grateful of that but because of that,I've been calling names like skeleton,living corpse and many more.Even my Science teacher calls me a skeleton.One of my mum's vrienden zei I have no butt,which makes me cry.I may look like a tough girl on the outside,but I'm too soft on the inside.I act a little tomboyish,but I could easily cry because of that.I always think that nobody loves me and they just want me to disappear from this world.Can somebody give me an advice on how to go on with my life even if it's full of sadness?
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jessy_an said:
You're normal ._.
I am 40 and 16.....
Don't worry world makes fun of everyone!~
Even of a honest person's too. Just ignore the world~
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Monsterka said:
Come on! u don't have to have butt like Kim Kardashian to feel attractive.... think about Yourself like about some with subtle and ethereal beauty, like model of ballerina :)
That mom's friend was unbelieveably tactless and cheeky, she should rather kiss ur ezel instead commenting it xDD

Don't never feel bad because u are not like others, of not perfect in their eyes... without diffrences world would be boring, u have to accept own uniqueness and don't give a damn about nasty comments.

The truth is, they have problem with themselves, not with You. Who normal, criticize others for apperance? It's Your genes, u can't change this. Probably they insult ya to feel better than u to improve own self-esteem this way.

seriously, they all are not worth Your tears and nerves. Trust me, that You're pretty in Your way and have lots amazing features even though u are very skinny. Besides, u can eat a lot, without getting fat! that's very comfortable, many ppl would be jealous (;
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I absolutely agree with you!
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snsdlover4ever said:
People probably just call u names like skeleton of living corpse because they have issues too, and think that they'll feel better if they put other people down. Your science teacher probably just says it as a joke, but I understand why u would get sad at that. My mom says I have no behind either, but it doesn't affect me since I already accepted that. No one wants u to leave this world, trust me. Even if this is the first time I'm "meeting" you, I don't want u to leave. Life is never going to be easy, so just try and get through this door standing up for yourself. Tell people, "I know that I'm thin. So what? Will my weight affect your life in any way? Is being me a problem? Pay meer attention to yourself rather than me, because I couldn't care less about what u say about me." Then walk away. I tried this before, and people stopped teasing me. Hopefully, this helped, because I'm not that good at giving advice. :)
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x-Yumi-x3 said:
Don't worry about what people say they will say anything to get u down. Be happy of your size, don't ashamed, cause if their commenting about your weight/size they obviously wish they could be your size. Take it as a compliment my dear.
One dag people are saying I'm fat the volgende I'm to skinny.
Im just like fuck it. I weight 130. Psh
((There are lots of ways for u to gain weight, it'll just take meer than eating alone.))
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posted een jaar geleden 
IsidoraSmiley said:
I know everyone says this but u can't let those things get to you...The people that call u names probably feel like they are too fat of skinny themselves and it is better to insult u about it than to except the fact. Since I never tried to gain weight, maybe u should talk to a doctor. of ask your mom how she got through it.
Anyway, u have to stay positive - most girls wishing to be thinner and loose weight and u have meer of less what most of us all want! :)
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LSP_98_Pigs said:
Hi,
Listen I'm in jaar ... and I way 23 kilos I am 140 cm People are always picking me up of making lame jokes like "You weigh as much as my baby sister etc." Well I would rather no I'm health and a little bit to skinny then not healthy and really skinny! So I ask u are u health?
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kpop4everlover said:
Well people like this will appear somewhere in life but as u get older u will see how things will change , u go to different schools , get jobs etc. Life is a path full of obstacles and if they tease u just give a smart reply back to make them have nothing to say. u have vrienden and family who will love u no matter what , those people are just not understanding , some are nice some are mean. But people might just be joking , I think your science teacher is just joking but after a while u might think differently , just do what u are doing and ignore all the bad things.
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summer2987 said:
just ignore them. It may seem extremely hard at first, because u might think their right and u shouldnt look like u do. but just ignore them and think about u and how u feel about yourslef minus all of them.


and hey, if u wanna gain some weight for u , then go right ahead.


and if u dont because u like how u look that is fine.


but if u change for all of them and not for yourself , then no.
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pipiqueen said:
i have a weight issue too!but it's waaaay....better than being overweight!besides, thin people are actually much healthier and stronger than others!
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EgoMouse said:
Hmm...you're a little taller than me and almost half my weight .__.
Well, when it comes to any issues, I like to write them down and express my feelings of it (doesn't have to be public on Facebook, just in a journal is fine). Then afterwards, come up with solutions of address the problem. Problems don't simply go away.
The body likes to maintain its weight. Within six months in total. So if u gain weight in those six months, your body will recognize it as your "standard weight". u can try that and patiently gain weight slowly but surely. Your genetics though seems to not want to store fat. It can be unhealthy, u can talk to your doctor about it.
As for solutions, u can talk to these people about how it makes u feel. However, this is easily zei than done. Not everyone will listen of stop.
The best solution is to try accept yourself. No matter what people say about your weight, it won't affect you. Accept that u were born genetically this way. Some people would be jealous of it. Then, I'll probably try to make vrienden with people that accept you, to get rid of the loneliness.
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