Should I forgive her??

I was best vrienden with this girl for six years, from nursery to the end of primary school. We did everything together, were pretty much joined at the hip. But then out of nowhere in the summer holidays she just cut me off completely, refused to talk to me and avoided me for ages until I was forced to take the hint. I was so upset and so angry, but I did eventually get over it. Now all of a sudden she's emailed me saying she's really sorry and knows what she did was wrong and wants to be my friend again. Should I forgive her??
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i think u should kus u were best vrienden from the get go
bigd1 posted een jaar geleden
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nooo way if she was horrid 2 yaa slaan, smack her and never be her friend again x
ilovethexfacter posted een jaar geleden
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dnt forgive her if she was complety mean 2 yaa
ilovethexfacter posted een jaar geleden
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i think u should discuss it with her. Maybe she had a reason for doing that and discuss what she felt like and tell her what yu felt like when she was saying that.
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breebree446 said:
u should be vrienden with her. When u leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made u feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time.
I hope it works out well for u two:-)
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 u should be vrienden with her. When u leave this world, regret nothing. At least have closure with her. But let her know how bad she made u feel. She was your best friend "Once" why can't she be it again. She may have been going through an awkward time. I hope it works out well for u two:-)
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yeaah i agree but if she does it continually then she is not worth feeling upset and angry about
seksyglam posted een jaar geleden
lilacool said:
it's up to u!if u need a mate and think that she's gonna be a better person in the future,then u shud!
and if not,u shudn't!
But here's wat i'd do,i'd accept and see if shes any better.if she did the same thing and ignored me again,i'd hate her and never make up with her again! =)hope i helped!i did mi best :-)
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What i would do: don't accept completely yet and discuss it with her ask her why she did it, tell her how she made u feel when she did that
seksyglam posted een jaar geleden
joelemasters said:
Well i guess it really depends...do u feel like allowing her back into your life?its good that she zei she was sorry..but i think that u deserve a reason to as of why she did it.but if u feel like u want to give her another chance at a friendship then go for it.
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RedDice99 said:
I think u should, if she does it a seconde time, then forgive her again. But if she does it for a third time, then don't forgive her ezel anymore. I think that's what u should do. u agree?
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Anyone else agree?
RedDice99 posted een jaar geleden
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I agree with u on that.i think that some kind of explaination should be gegeven to why she did it though
joelemasters posted een jaar geleden
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That's what I'm sayin' Thanks
RedDice99 posted een jaar geleden
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no i think give her 1 chance if she does it again tell her LAST time and if she really wants to be your friend she should'nt do it again. However if she does it 3 times then obviously she is not clever enough to realise she is losing a very nice forgiving friend
seksyglam posted een jaar geleden
rebcam13 said:
Yes u should, because she was probaly trying to fit in with snooty people of something, but frogive her a friendship like that shoul last forever.
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lollipopszx3 said:
I think so. Six years is a very long time and well if she is your best friend she probably has a good reason for avoiding you. I don't think that over one thing that happened for two months should break a friendship that lasted for six years.
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PoddoChan said:
YES u SHOULD!
Could be a mistake of something that she acted that way, Forget it and just think it's no biggie :)
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xneville_rocksx said:
I think that u should see how sorry she really is. If she is truely sorry, then u should become vrienden again. If she is not, then I do not think that that person deserves to be your friend.
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Jeffersonian said:
NO!!! If she ignored u completely once, she could do it again. I was in such a friendship, and we were "friends" for a long time like u and this girl were. Not to mention I also thought this girl was my best friend. When I finally realised I was being used, and I decided to cut off the so called friendship, u know what she did? She sent me an e-mail saying that it was obviously a friendship that had "outstayed it's welcome" Your case sounds an awful lot like mine.
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tooch said:
I think u should talk to her and try and find out why she cut u off all of a sudden.
See her point of view, make your opinion and then see if her reason was good enough for forgiveness.
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