In my opnion when it comes to friendship it means that u and the people u care about stick together for periods of time until u get to know one another.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen fans but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the fans I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly of being abused of played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this artikel to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to u all out there- the minuut u try to make vrienden with somebody most of the vrienden u make will evenutally verplaats on and leave u behind, ripping u apart like a lion with a wildebeest. u may think I am going to leave u but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them of have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my vrienden and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it of I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat vrienden this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments of diagreeing of agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- u can choose to be a bad person and just come on Fanpop and ignore the ones u care about dearly of be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice u make depends on the kind of person u are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help of have troubles with something of if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- vrienden are harder to find in this world especially vrienden that u can relate to of trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what vrienden are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great vrienden as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope u all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices u make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I love my Fanpop pals with all of my hart-, hart and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless u get to know them better first. But if they ignore u of go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of u and I. Again, not being instuling about all of u just saying.
However, not a lot of people are like this. In my case, I may have over a dozen fans but a percentage of them even talk to me nor do they know who I am and what I meant to be on here for. Don't get me wrong a few of the fans I have are very nice to me. Whenver I talk to them I always feel welcomed, safe, secured, and better. But when I am being treated unfairly of being abused of played around it makes me angry, sad, depressed, and unhappy.
I am not making this artikel to hate everyone but I am just expressing myself to u all out there- the minuut u try to make vrienden with somebody most of the vrienden u make will evenutally verplaats on and leave u behind, ripping u apart like a lion with a wildebeest. u may think I am going to leave u but I never will: I never forget someone once I have talked to them of have meet them before. I always try to be on here all the time for my vrienden and most of the time I make it while there are times when I don't even make it of I may not want to come because I know I will get treated unfairly like what most people do to me all the time. It's just not fair to treat vrienden this way.
Again I do not mean to start any arguments of diagreeing of agreeing here. I am only expressing myself because I think what these so called "fans" are doing to each other and towards me is unfair. We come on to have fun not to be abused. :( So the choice is yours- u can choose to be a bad person and just come on Fanpop and ignore the ones u care about dearly of be like me and the rest of my other great friens and just come on for the joy and for talking to the ones that mean dearly to you. But the choice u make depends on the kind of person u are. I am a good person because I know I am. I give away gifts, I create gifts for my friends, I talk to them, come on for their sakes if they need help of have troubles with something of if they simply need a person who can listen to them. I am all of that and I am always online for them.
Just take a pieace of the page from my book- vrienden are harder to find in this world especially vrienden that u can relate to of trust. I have a diffcult time finding the right friends, but I know I have them with me. They are the great ones because they understand me better and they know what I am looking for. I am not looking for someone who likes the stuff I do- even though that is what vrienden are about but it's not the only thing I am looking for. What I am looking for as well are the kind of people that I can talk with and even express my proublems and feelings to. I know I have my family with me to express my issues too but they don't quite understand certain boundries. I am happy they are there for me and I always am happy to have them but I need some other good people besides them and that is why I come on here- to make as many great vrienden as I possibly can to feel happy and welcomed. :) It's not about the attention, it's about the sake of the many faces here on Fanpop.
This is my story and I hope u all will learn something from me- it's not easy being the nice responsiable one in the group, but being reasonable and kind is what gets us going in life. It's always best to do what is right rather than do what is wrong. The right choices u make will effect the sake of your friends. I know I am happy being a nice person and a great friend for my friends. I love my Fanpop pals with all of my hart-, hart and I would never trade anything for them. I wouldn't even give up on them. If it weren't for them, I would be nothing. But just learn from what I have gone through: it's not always easy to make trust in somebody unless u get to know them better first. But if they ignore u of go off doing their own thing then they are no better than any of u and I. Again, not being instuling about all of u just saying.
