I donno, I think Aidan was too.. Blah... :)

Even though he was a complete bastard to her at times, she's meant to be with Mr. Big
Aidan was a great guy and my favourite of her boyfriends but they weren't compatible.

Yeh i agree with both the above BLAH is the right word to discribe aidan! :)

Mr.Big NO Comment

omg no way!!!! didnt work for 5 series no way would it work after!! Aidan was a gem and always put carrie first..total gentleman!! big was least be honest a gimp!

of course her Big love :)

Big just never took their relationship seriously unitl it was almost too late. You either love someone and do something about it or you don't! Aidan never cheated and was willing to make something of their relationship while he was there.

I've picked Aidan because i love him more but if I was honest she doesn't deserve him. She's too winey!! Like come on carrie he's great and you go off and cheat on him with big who you always wined about, ya's both deserve eachother!!

totally agree with "ash 265" Aidan was always a real gentleman and treated Carrie better than any other man she ever went out with. and what do u know? hes just too perfect for her, so she cant quite marry him... suppose Big and Carrie are just meant to be together, i suppose - cheating, turning away, fighting all the time... they'r the same. Aidan was The Man.

Big for sure! Aidan was sweet, but not exciting enough for Carrie!

Big was a handsome jerk. Treated Carrie bad. Aiden's a real man.

Big was an ass. All he wanted from Carrie was to sleep with her. Aidan treated her right. But I do have to agree with the comment above saying that she didn't deserve him. He was just too good for her. You know the other bf i REALLY liked? Burger!

Burger was a turd!!! How he got all butt hurt from the scrunchie comment; Aidan was awesome But Carrie is a masochist, she likes drama and that is why she didn't want Aidan. Big was an ass dani4a!

why would blah be the word for aidan? he was too good for carrie!!!!!!!!!!!! and just because he was good to her and didnt want to sleep with her to until he got to know her it means he was blah? when he made her quit smoking so she could have a healthy how is that blah?? the fact that he forgave her for cheating and wanted to marry her was blah? when big made her his mistress it was ok?? that is exactly why she always got hurt because she likes realtionships where they go back and fourth. to all thoses who said aidan was "BLAH" i think you should reevaluate what a "blah" man is.

Aidan was to dull Carrie would of settled down with him. But Carrie never wanted to settle she wanted complexity and when Big and Carrie met on screen even though they weren't a perfect fit they were in love.

I think Aidan was the better man, but Big was the better choice for Carrie.
I'd take Aidan any day...but that's me. I like nice guys.

Big is like the opposite to Aidan, Carrie Ends up with Big THEREFORE Aidan is completely wrong for her...thought i kinda loved Aidan it just didn't fit!!

Tough choice..
The chemistry between Big & Carrie says it all.
Aidan was a real sweetheart.He didn't like her smoking,which she had done way before meeting him.I disliked Alexander Petrovski.
So glad they didn't end up together!

Big...Aiden and carrie?!?!seriously? He was cute and loyal and *I agree* Blah, but those 2 together was a disaster. The first and second time

I agree that is why I chose Big. Big hurt her the most and it was mainly because she was so in love with him...true love hurts.

aidans hotter

way hotter

Obviously Big, they did end up together in the end!

aidan was a gentleman and he always put her first. but she doesn't deserve him, she deserves the jerk, big, who treated her like dirt.

even though i do like aidan better as a person and mr.big was a bastard at times..well lots of times but mr. big and carrie were meant to be together no matter how much better aidan may have seemed

Big is beautiful and sexy and all those things but he can't be trusted. I don't know about other ladies but I don't want a man I can't trust. This is why I am choosing Aidan. There is no doubt that he loves Carrie and she wouldn't have to worry about him doing things like Mr. Big would do.

mr. big hands down...and PERIOD

Big was never good enough for Carrie... but she was never good enough for Aidan. So Aidan is still the better man...

guys the questions isn't who was the better man? it's who was the better man for carrie! sticking by my guns

Mr. Big is sexy in a 'bad-boy' kinda way... he's just so damned horrible to her! Aiden was adorable, and treated her right. I think he's the better guy for her, but he's out of the picture and one can't help but wonder if Big and Carrie are FINALLY gonna get together for good in the movie!!

Thay are both good.. But Big is just better - the reason?
He's SO hot! And it seems that everytime Carrie was with another guy, she always compared them to Big and thought of him! Which basically "means" SHE LOVES BIG! ;) (And I do too.. ;))

i don`t even know who aidan is & i don`t care,
mr.big & carrie are perfect LOL

I never liked Aidan, he was always trying to change Carrie. Big takes her as she is!

carrie needs someone to keep her busy for more than five minutes and big did that she needed the excitement. aiden always tried to change her and carrie bust of loved his as she kept going back. she cheated on aiden with bigbecause she likes him more. and i think the way aiden broke up with her because she wasnt ready to get married was horrible he dint deserve her.

aiden DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!! big wouldnt leave her alone suduced (SP?) her stalked her and they just dont go together besides he dosnt want kids maby she will one day

Big just pissed me off.

Big is the obvious choice, he was sexier, cooler and more of a challenge.

i love Aidan

I can't stand Aidan. They don't mesh well, and have completely different styles and views of life.

But Big...they do mesh well.

I like Aidan because he was nicer and better for her...i think he loved her more than she loved him BUT she loved Big more. He was the BIG love for her, even though he was a jerk to her.

Is this even a serious question- who is the better man for Carrie?! Big is HORRIBLE for her... always toying with her emotions... Aidan is such a sweetheart and like the perfect guy until Carrie can't get over Big and cheats on Aidan with him. BIG mistake!

Siren0327, if you don`t think it`s a serious question than why did you answer it? Did you even watch the series? Aidan wasn`t so perfect the way he tried to change Carrie and treated her like shit after they got back together. If he loved her so much and was such a great guy than why did he reconcile with her in part to get back at her for cheating? Then after they broke up for the second time he tried to take her apartment away. How great is he?

Big loves Carrie for who she is. Aidan was a controlling jerk who forced Carrie to do many things she didn't want to do and tried to change her. Big may not always be perfect but when it comes down to it no one is perfect, he's more human and less annoying than Aidan.

I love them together

Aiden is just too good for Carrie.

Big and carrie had chemistry, Aiden was good but it just wasn't there. I've been there, you can't force it.

aiden was pushy n big was ment for carrie

I think that if she would'nt be so fucked up by big, she would have staid with aidan...
But i like big to

Out of all her Boyfriends, my favourite is Aidan but Carrie and Mr Big are meant to be :] It's True love.

they both sorta remind me of each other but aidan is soo much hotter the big .

I think Big. But Aidan was really good for her to :)

I've loved Mr. Big from season one episode one.

i love aiden

it dosent matter if the whole world agrees that it should have been aiden, BIG got the girl, watch the movie, see the series finale, HE and Carrie have great chemistry and most importanly, he is hotter and makes her LAUGH, humor is everything, and aside from that he is a suave successful man with a dry wit and intellect

Definatly Big. I have always thought that Big was the one for her.

aiden was a great guy...just not the right fit for carrie...i think she tried to be with him and be the kind of woman he deserved but her heart already belonged to Big...i think that is ultimately why she could not give aiden what he wanted which was a solid committment...Big was the one guy she could not let go of...im glad Big stopped being a bone head and came to his senses...

my favorite character on the show......besides Carrie

i rewatched season 4....the Carrie.Aidan relationship and he was awesome but i still think big is better for her...

AIDAN ALL THE WAY!
big was so selfish..

If it was a question of who was the better man, then my answer would be Aidan, but for Carrie, it's gotta be Big. They belong together. :)

If you don't want him, can I?

hmmmmm... both are very very good!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Big

Aidan was sweeter kinder and more romantic! and cared alot for Carrie and really loved her , Big on the other hand was your typical dickhead he was a womanizing cheat who showed no emotion and just wanted sex all the time he also couldn't commit and treated Carrie like shit. Women every were all over the world are screaming out for a guy like Aidan every day so he was too good for her anyways . i love Aidan!!!

Aidan was and is the man for carrie!!
He was loving and did anything for her!
I still can not belive that she cheated on him! He totally did not deserve it!
Now, after me thinking better, Carrie never realy deserved him. She was awful too him!

I picked Aidan because he was a really great guy, and for a while I wanted it to workout with them, but the truth is Carrie and Big are a better match.

Mhmm, this is a tricky question. I mean, I loved Carrie's relationship with Aidan more, if the question is who is BETTER for her, I think Aidan made her better, I don't know it felt like she was more free to be herself, more laid back with him and I liked that. But at the same time it feels like Carrie "belongs" with Big, I mean no matter what she kept going back to him, so in the end it's them two.
But I'll always love Aidan.

Yes!

i chose aiden because he was such a sweetie who was beyond good to her. big was jerk for so long!!!

I love big and Carrie

Mr. Big is such trash, honestly.

Damn Right!

AIDAN WAS HER MAN! Women always end up choosing the toxic guy!

Aidan SHOULD be with Carrie cause he's awesome and romantic and loves her.
But Carrie & Big we're MEANT TO BE. So it's kinda a dilemma.

by far <3

Neither of them.
Aidan deserves someone who reciprocate his feelings, and Big is just an abusive freak. I really dislike Carrie and Big toxic relationship.