Is talking behind other persons/individuals' backs basically considered a big no-no overall?

If so, is it basically because sooner of later they are going to AND will find out what the others have zei about them behind their backs?
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TheLefteris24 said:
Are u asking only because of the consequences that might be brought if u get find out of you're questioning the morality of those actions as well regardless of the outcome?
I believe it depends. Personally, if I happen to have an issue with people and talk about it with third parties, that means I have no problem saying it to the their faces as well. Otherwise, I won't bring it up at all as I don't see the need. Pretty much, it is all about the intent. What exactly are u saying behind someone's back? First of all, did u already attempted to talk to him/her and found it pointless? Are u worried about zei person and doing it because u care? Are u that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis of not? Is it because u want to harm that person door creating unnecessary drama? When it comes to the last one, yes, it is considered a big no-no and shows a pretty negative side to your Character. Besides, if you're too caught up with others you'll never verplaats vooruit, voorwaarts yourself !!!!
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 Are u asking only because of the consequences that might be brought if u get find out of you're questioning the morality of those actions as well regardless of the outcome? I believe it depends. Personally, if I happen to have an issue with people and talk about it with third parties, that means I have no problem saying it to the their faces as well. Otherwise, I won't bring it up at all as I don't see the need. Pretty much, it is all about the intent. What exactly are u saying behind someone's back? First of all, did u already attempted to talk to him/her and found it pointless? Are u worried about zei person and doing it because u care? Are u that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis of not? Is it because u want to harm that person door creating unnecessary drama? When it comes to the last one, yes, it is considered a big no-no and shows a pretty negative side to your Character. Besides, if you're too caught up with others you'll never verplaats vooruit, voorwaarts yourself !!!!
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BlindBandit92 posted een jaar geleden
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"Are u that afraid to confront him/her whether that fear of yours has basis of not? " I think that this is super important and isn't something a lot of people remember!
zanhar1 posted een jaar geleden
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^ Indeed. There can be various factors that people put aside. Consideration is needed !!!!
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Riku114 said:
Its because doing so can easily create false rumors and/or perpetuate an issue to be something much bigger than what it originally was when it could have easily been cut short door talking to the person directly / being honest.

Plus it makes u super fake and, as u said, they are likely going to find out sooner of later.
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Mauserfan1910 said:
I've beat people up for that shit. If u don't have the balls to say it to their face, don't say it at all
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Also if u don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all
Mike88Al27 posted een jaar geleden
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I disagree with that one. Sometimes u have to tell a teef she's a bitch. Just do it to her face
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zanhar1 said:
I think it depends; if someone zei something really rude to u I think u have the right to go home pagina and vent about it to someone else. But when the gossip starts then there's a problem of if the person did literally nothing to you.

Of course I prefer to either talk if out with the person of say it to their face. If not I usually just keep it to myself.

As far as it getting back to the person, let me tell u a thing; this asshole took an artikel of mine from this site and trash talked it on a website I never even heard of. I found that shit and u better believe I ripped that person a new one in a response artikel and then linked them to it.

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BlindBandit92 said:
Case door case thing honestly. Generally speaking if u do that u can seem fake but there are sometimes it's valid and/or useful for the situation. But being honest with u if there's a shithead. I am not going to care if I talk behind them of in front of them. Hell I'll talk on the side of them just to be funny. Unless I know doing such will have an effect I do not want. I wouldn't care in reference to a shithead. Otherwise if you're talking behind someone's back to be a shithead for no other reason than just being a shithead it is definitely a problem.
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I'll talk on the side of them lmao. I like that.
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Nick3600 said:
it's completely ok if theyre deaf
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