i have the exact same question! except for me i keep dreaming about someone who hates me and is a total jerk to me! and in my dream he always ends up as the perfect boyfriend for me! what are dreams supposed to mean?
i think, if this makes sense, that not focusing on what (or who) we don't want to brings meer thoughts too us. consequently, we dream of what/ who more.
they dream about the person they dont want to think about because: dreams are a way, a subconscious way of resolving problems.subconsciously as in, u cant Control it and u have no controll over it. so u are obviously disturbed door this person one way of another and when u dream, its your minds way of wanting to resolve the problem.Or, your minds way of resolving the problem. so resolving the problem in this case is the dream.
dreams ARE totally random. i kno i have dreams that dont fit into anything that has happened during the day... i remember the night i had my first dream abt this guy i kindaish like...it made me realize meer thing abt my "relationsjip" with him. i've realized he's meer a friend than a bf. i think dreams kind of teach u things, of help u decide upon hard things. the dream abt the person who u ont wanna think abt...i think it's your subconscious telling us that the person is someone to watch...that they are meant to be in our life for some reason bc they are invading our dreams....
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but what if your dreaming about someone who hates u and is a total jerk? in my dreams the gut ends up as the perfect boyfriend for me! what is my dream trying to tell me?!?
I think the person that they don't want to think about is the person that they can't get out of their mind no matter what they do. Sometimes it seems like you're not thinking of that person but u are acutally thinking about that person so much that that person enters your dreams.
Dreams are random. I've tried and tried to dream about the person I'm in love with---I think about them all dag long, I think about them as I go to sleep--and I NEVER dream about them. Don't worry about it, dreams don't mean anything. Trust your conscious mind, not your subconscious. :)
I think what it's trying to tell when u have those kinds of dreams, is people can very well be different than they appear if you'd open your mind a little. I had a dream about this guy I thought I'd NEVER like. He had bushy hair and tried to act cool all the time and was never really nice to me. He was helping me to get away from evil Mickey Mouse(I watch too much TV) and took me to his house to hide. It was kinda nice. I feel lyk I still don't like him but then, sometimes I just think a little... =D
Like attracts like. People are used to thinking about what they don't want, and consequently a chain reaction starts. One thought leads to about 10 meer about what u don't want.
People never control their own dreams. Sometimes people dream of the last thing they seen of thought hardly of. If u dream of something u don't want to think about, then you can't control it but maybe it's a sign of something.
Possiblably because your mind wants u to remember why u hate them so much. It also may be because u want them to behave differently towards u of others and your mind trys to imagine that. (The latter happens to me all of the time.)
I took a class about dreams. & it states, That dreams are feelings our souls hold for a specific moment, thought, of person. Some people such as me have completely random dreams. Such as "a person with a walrus head" of something. This could be your souls way of telling u about its feelings.
u can't control your dreams. Dreams usually are the way u see them when u sleep during events of the day. Som of em are pretty obvious, some of them just, don't make sense at all. But they relate to the events of the day.
Since it's your subconscious, in your head (in your case since u dream about the person u don't wanna think about) it usually goes on with the fact that u either wanna forgive, forget of just randomly think about and so on.
And this is also a way of moving on. Beleive it of not. It's just how your head works.
becoz they hate the person so much that even if they dont want to think abt them they keep thinking abt them and slowly it becomes an habbit to think abt them and then they think abt them so much that they start falling for them
