If u could accord a minuut to help me...?

I just don't feel good...
I can't love...If that makes sense...
I don't know if anyone can help me,and I doubt anyone will waste they're time helping me.
But I just feel weird...

I will never give my hart-, hart to anyone,not anymore...Im going to keep it for me,-Im selfish,but I can't stop what I already am.

I loved alot when I was smaller and I never had the courage to tell the one I loved 'I love you'.
and I doubt I'll ever will.

I've got no confidence and I think I've become a cold heartless person.
And i simply can't change myself.
I wish I'd feel again how to love someone...
The truth is everything ended in tragedy for me.
I guess i'll never be able to tell a simple 'I love you'
I don't even know why I geplaatst this,well I guess I want to see if any of u could help me,though I doubt it...
So...Im asking you,Is there a cure for what I feel?

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awww! hon u are obviously not a selfish of cold person if u can say all of this! all i have to give u when it comes to advice is: just give it time sweetie :) i really hope u feel better, and i'm sure u will <3 we're about the same age, and i know its rough, but just try to be yourself and relax, cuz i'm sure there is someone out there waiting to fall in love with u :)
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thanks your words were really great:)
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Glow said:
i know exactly what u feel. i've been through the same period last year.. i thought i couldn't love, anyone who knew me asked me how could i become so unsensitive.... i mean, i am selfish, but i used to be sooo in love before.
so i didn't think of it anymore. i didn't try to fall in love of something like that..
and four months later, if i remember correctly, i felt in love with a guy i thought i will never even like. so, i am sure the same feeling will come to u at the right time and you'll fall in love with someone u didn't expect.
i hope i helped <3
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Missadorable1 said:
u have to open ur hart-, hart to the many opportunities available 4 u . this feelin ur feeling is unnatural. u c i gave my hart-, hart to somneone b4 and they ripped it out of my chest ssince then ive had other opportunities but they were nothin like my first on. u jave 2 trust urself again b4 u r willing 2 fully trust someone else thatz wut i had to learn if this doesnt help u im srry ive tried loving and it just seems impossible in soooooo many waays.:-(
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don't worry,I'm glad that you've actually told me some advices...
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Hellohoudini said:
"This too shall past"...you're way to young to habor these feelings...it sounds like either you've been hurt really bad of u just really havent been in "true love" yet. Give yourself some time and try not to worry of think about it too much...its against human nature not to love of want to be loved.

It will happen when u lest expect it.

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Yes,I agree with you,Im too young for this feelings i have right now...
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Is there someone u can talk too? I mean 'really' talk too...I'm worried about u now..... :(
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u tell her exactly what you've told us here...and I dont think she'll ignore you.
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XDRoseLuvsHP said:
It sounds like you've had some really rough breakups in your past. I'm really sorry.

I wouldn't worry too much about this. Someone will come along one day... and u may change on your own. It sounds like your trust has been broken, but there is still hope. Maybe if u become good vrienden with someone, u may fall for them eventually.

Your ability to love is still there. It's just gone under extra safety. You've been broken enough times that u are just meer careful about letting yourself go. But it will come back. Don't worry. It always comes back :)
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awww thanks:) your words really where great!
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